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Dec 03, 2005 23:54

Okay, so at Java Hutt today we got back onto the discussion of the Katie Koestner thing. Another guy (a stranger) got involved. Gabe and I explained the situation and discussed for a while. This resulted in him inquiring about our ages and then replying to "discuss it with him in about five years". Now that makes me beyond angry, because what ( Read more... )

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AFD AKlfhalsdjfhjsdklsdfh!!!!!!!!!! aguyandhisdeck December 4 2005, 06:27:06 UTC
THAT'S WHAT I WAS TRYING TO SAY THE WHOLE TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But I bet none of your friends are going to call you a royal bitch for saying anything like that.

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Re: AFD AKlfhalsdjfhjsdklsdfh!!!!!!!!!! inside_version December 4 2005, 15:28:32 UTC
yeah brian and simone kinda ate you up for your generally polite comment on brians lj.

i think thats what is meant by militant.

Kt- i think i was kinda projected my general feelings regarding this etc. onto you. my bad.

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Re: AFD AKlfhalsdjfhjsdklsdfh!!!!!!!!!! dark_writer13 December 4 2005, 17:48:18 UTC
I think the issue in what you said was this: "But forgive me for thinking that such an event isn't half as traumatizing or emotionally scarring as the first one. She didn't deserve it, but that isn't to say she didn't somewhere in the back of her mind expect it. Why would she have gone with John into a private room somewhere if she didn't expect for something to happen?"

The event may be just as traumatizing to both women regardless of the man's intentions...

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Re: AFD AKlfhalsdjfhjsdklsdfh!!!!!!!!!! satansplaything December 6 2005, 02:53:22 UTC
thats pretty much it. the edge of 'she deserved it' didnt help much either.

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Re: AFD AKlfhalsdjfhjsdklsdfh!!!!!!!!!! aguyandhisdeck December 8 2005, 02:19:19 UTC
I'd like to respectfully ask you to stop putting words in my mouth. I never said, nor implied, such a thing. Only that she has to take responsibility for her own actions. That isn't saying, nor does it mean, that the consequences of failing to do so should be rape. It's just saying that such a thing is something that can, unfortunately, be a result. I'm just saying she made a mistake too.

This is the last I'll be saying on this matter because quite frankly I am tired of discussing it, and I'm insulted by the mean spirited responses I have recieved.

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Re: AFD AKlfhalsdjfhjsdklsdfh!!!!!!!!!! aguyandhisdeck December 12 2005, 01:38:44 UTC
Apologies, I guess I wasnt being very clear ( ... )

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