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Made a decent start on my fic for the winnners monthly challenge, looks like it's gonna be a long one though and so I've decided to scrap my compaubigbang fic. The comm seems mostly dead anyway with a lot of other participants having dropped out weeks ago, so I'm gonna save the idea I do have and use it for my gleebigbang fic instead. That way I have more time to write it and I know I should get better quality art for my work.
Yasmin's not doing well at the moment though. She and Midge got into an epic fight on facebook and Matt decided to step in and fan the flames a little by digging up skeletons from when they were still dating. He says it's because to be a true friend to both Midge and Yasmin he can't keep secrets from either of them, I called bullshit on it and said that if he was a true friend he'd not be trying to poison their memories of one another by mentioning mistakes they'd made.
Whatever. Matt's asking if I'm still gonna be his friend or if I'm gonna be on Yasmin's side.
Let's think about this for a few seconds. My best friend since I was 12-years-old who I love deeply and if I lost her friendship it would be like a physical wound OR the guy who dumped me without explanation, only to then bitch behind my back about the reasons he broke it off to my best friend and I had to hear it all second hand from her. Wow, that's a tough one
I basically said that I'll take Yasmin's side if it comes down to it, but if she isn't upset by the concept I'd still be his friend. I'm still not sure how you handle the whole "still be friends" thing with an ex. Ashley was more a friend than a boyfriend to begin with, so nothing changed after the break-up. I wasn't friends with Josh or Jamie before I started dating them so I couldn't exactly be friends, since I hadn't been to start with. Matt I'd actually gotten to know while we were dating, but he lapsed straight into being buddies and that just irritates me.
*sigh* Why does life have to be so complicated?