Lies I read on the internet
Yeah, sure...but there's no guarantee he's bringing you through it alive. Remember Job? He's the star of the tale...but what happened to his wife? His sons? How do you know if you're the protagonist, or just somebody who gets killed along the way, the sidekick to somebody else's journey "through it"?
No, I'm pretty sure you inherit that. Never heard of anyone yet who's succeeded in willpowering their way to a new genetic code. Or, you know, shit happens to it along the way...like illness, and injury, and all sorts of stuff...unless you think you've earned that, too.
Oh, honey, that's only if you haven't done nearly enough.
Nope, that's called "my husband's workplace". God, who comes up with these things?
(all images taken from pinterest.com)