a couple thinkgs I've learnt at work (applicable to home as well)
1. Reacting purely on emotion is almost always counter productive. Count to ten, or better yet, leave the email and come back to it at the end of the day. Bet you don't press send. If you think to yourself, "I wonder if I should really say this," you probably shouldn't.
2. Share all your thoughts on what you want to do and why you want to do it. Be open for debate. Even if the other people are not experts in your area, and even if you don't agree with them, you will probably get a new perspective which will lead to a more informed decision.
2. Share all your thoughts on what you want to do and why you want to do it. Be open for debate. Even if the other people are not experts in your area, and even if you don't agree with them, you will probably get a new perspective which will lead to a more informed decision.