Apr 29, 2008 15:42
If there is ever a sign that you are over your ex, it would be sitting patiently in his office, listening to him talk about how much loves someone else and witnessing his broken heart (she just broke up with him). I was not that person for him, and it's fine. I love someone else and that's fine. Ultimately, there's nothing more to that connection anymore, except a warm feeling that he's a good guy and sadness for his current loss. I made amends to him for any pain that I caused him and told him to call me if he needs anything.
I don't know if I have publicly stated this either, but M3 is getting married. We've been invited to the wedding. The wedding is at like the world's worst time, but I am going to try to go. Out of all of my exes, I was afraid that he would never date again after we broke up, since he didn't for about five years. Out of all of my exes, he was the only one that seemed to really crave being married, so it was sad that he wasn't dating. But now! Quicker than I ever imagined, he just found the right woman and now their getting married. It feels good to have him "squared away," even though I had nothing to do with the process!