can we say hooked?!?!
I am totally crazy for my guy. Most people would say, "Good for you, you've found someone you like". And most people would not even be scraping the tip of the mountain. Due to my need to be a free spirit and never stay in one place or thought process for long, I get bored very easily. It amazes me how much I was bored with boyfriends in the past and I put up with it thinking that it was how relationships were supposed to be. They say that good relationships are comfortable and stable and I thought that meant I had to submit myself to boredom and a lifetime of watching my free spirit slowly fade away.
Man was I being fed the wrong information. Yes, we have only been together for less than three months and I am not going to imply that he might "be the one" or some crap like that. I don't know if he is "the one" and I don't plan on figuring that out until that particular moment comes and hits me in the head. That being said, I will admit that I have never met anyone like him before in my life and it's pretty awesome that he says the same thing about me. I have never met someone I could be so honest about my thoughts and emotions all the time, no matter what.
But back to the point of my thoughts. While I do love talking about how amazing he is, it's not the reason for this particular ramble. I feel totally at ease and completely comfortable with him, but I am never, ever bored. We are always learning something new about one another or planning something new and fun to do together. And then there is my personal favorite moments, when we don't plan anything and just see what happens. (Like the night we just got in the car and drove until we found something fun to do.) That is not to say that we don't repeat some activities, but what makes them different is our conversation. Rarely do we talk about the same thing more than once. It's pretty fucking cool.
Once again, I will state that we are a new couple and we of course are still learning a lot about one another. I get all that, but I hope that we keep finding new things to share together and other things to talk about. Never once have I felt like I had to be something other than 100% myself and that is the most amazing feeling in the universe and I am constantly intrigued by him and what is next for us. Yeah, he's that kick ass.
P.S. We are planning (correction, he is planning and I'm along for the ride) a totally awesome trip to Asheville for the middle of November!! :)
Man was I being fed the wrong information. Yes, we have only been together for less than three months and I am not going to imply that he might "be the one" or some crap like that. I don't know if he is "the one" and I don't plan on figuring that out until that particular moment comes and hits me in the head. That being said, I will admit that I have never met anyone like him before in my life and it's pretty awesome that he says the same thing about me. I have never met someone I could be so honest about my thoughts and emotions all the time, no matter what.
But back to the point of my thoughts. While I do love talking about how amazing he is, it's not the reason for this particular ramble. I feel totally at ease and completely comfortable with him, but I am never, ever bored. We are always learning something new about one another or planning something new and fun to do together. And then there is my personal favorite moments, when we don't plan anything and just see what happens. (Like the night we just got in the car and drove until we found something fun to do.) That is not to say that we don't repeat some activities, but what makes them different is our conversation. Rarely do we talk about the same thing more than once. It's pretty fucking cool.
Once again, I will state that we are a new couple and we of course are still learning a lot about one another. I get all that, but I hope that we keep finding new things to share together and other things to talk about. Never once have I felt like I had to be something other than 100% myself and that is the most amazing feeling in the universe and I am constantly intrigued by him and what is next for us. Yeah, he's that kick ass.
P.S. We are planning (correction, he is planning and I'm along for the ride) a totally awesome trip to Asheville for the middle of November!! :)