Sex is not the enemy...but female body hair seems to be - LOTS OF TMI but fuck it. Seriously.

[dancinbutterfly]

So the following post is probably going to be TMI. Feel free to scroll past but I'm not cutting. Sorry. I'm a tiny bit too annoyed.

I spent pretty much all night going through all 114 pages of sex is not the enemy. Each page has maybe...20 images? Its a pretty solid mix of all the different kinds of solo and combination, gender norm and gender

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[nahemaraxe]

Oh god, word. So hard.

I tried that too (I gave up on waxing, even legs because lolno, thanks. There are razors and creams and I'm told that they work), but I gave up after a short while. A very short while. I mean, I'm dark haired and I have a fucking fair skin, hair shows like a firework in the night, but I can't see why I should be hairless. I shave my legs when and if I feel like to, same with armpits and that's about it. My husband doesn't care, so why should I? I remember that one time when we were talking about it and he said something along the lines of 'you think you have to, but it isn't so. It isn't written anywhere' and hey, he was right.

Smooth isn't sexy be default. It took me a long while to get there, exactly as it took me a long while to accept the fact that I've got tiny tits in a world of DD cups but meh. That's me. I don't want to change myself to conform to unwritten rules I don't agree with to begin with.

[dancinbutterfly]

And see, I totally get that. *waves* but you have the magic word. Husband. Well, less husband specifically and more "partner that loves you". I dont have that. I just have a sea of pretty and fuckable but not necessarily enlightened collegetown boys. I'm Jewish - Russian and Turkish Jew. So I've got the fair skin and DARK HAIR too. I love my complexion. The dark/light contrast is one of the VERY few things I about me I know are is attractive. But fuck am I hairy, even on my FACE

[dancinbutterfly]

Lol, thanks for that Aaron. ;) you give me hope for male kind.

[ciel_vert]

Dude, I feel you there. I'm relatively fair skinned and I have dark hair and at least 1/2 of my heritage is from the hair belt in Europe (Hungarian woot!). And it sucks, to feel insecure about something that is NORMAL. When I was younger and mostly about pleasing other people instead of myself, I kept things shaved mostly. It didn't bother me overly much in a painful kind of way (although sometimes there was that) but it was a bitch to keep up with. My long term boyfriend in college changed all of that though. I remember I was all shaved up for when we first got together, and then he said something to me that I will love him for forever "you know, you don't have to do that for me. I mean, if you want to it's fine, but if it's just for me, don't bother, I'd actually rather you were all natural down there, that's how you're supposed to be". MY HEART! So now, I keep things trimmed, because *I* like it neat (and actually, it's painful for me if things get too long) but it's all about why *I* want down there. And as far as I know, the last

[telleer]

I think that's a bit of an American/North American thing

[roxymissrose]

I'm going to sound like the old fart I am, but man, that's just another reason why I feel so sorry for you young folks today. There's so much stupid bullshit that you guys have been made to feel is the natural order of things. In my day(koff) everybody was hairy as goats, and all we women shaved were our pits and legs and if you felt especially daring, trimmed the bush. You can see it in the pictures of the old days--men were expected to be furry or they weren't manly enough, and preferring bald girls was left to the pedophiles and to this day, I have to think a man who wants a woman shaved is a man who wants a ten year old girl.

You know what? The next generations coming up are somehow going to think that hair is sexy again, and bald people ae going to be unsexy, just the way this current generation thinks that signs that one has reached sexual maturity are gross.

Ha! You hit a pet peeve of mine--you've got me rambling on!