Before I begin:
“In Judaism, shiva (or 'shiv'ah', Hebrew: העבש ; "seven") is the week-long period of grief and mourning for the seven first-degree relatives: father, mother, son, daughter, brother, sister, and spouse. (Grandparents and grandchildren are traditionally not included). As most regular activity is interrupted, the process of following
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Hah, and that kid -- I knew it would be useless to start a random conversation about wonderful books -- he would totally see right through it.
See you Saturday!
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A fascinating account. My closest experience with sitting Shiva was when I went to visit a friend in Paris, back in winter of 1972, when I was living in Vienna. Unfortunately, her dad died suddenly between the time I departed and my arrival, so I arrived, a totally cash-broke student, to a house of mourning. The mother was absolutely furious, and kicked me out. (I don't blame her)
Before she did, I could hear the prayers in the other room, switching between Hebrew and French.
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Ooh, bad timing. If you'd arrived after the funeral I would have expected them to feed you, but beforehand everything is really crazy.
I love seeing prayer books in another language because the Hebrew is all recognizable but the translation isn't. The knowledge that Hebrew is the connecting language while English isn't gives me this feeling of connectedness that's completely different from when English is the common language.
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Day Two made me laugh.
Day Three--what are the chances!? Doesn't it just figure that you'd get a pasta dish on the day that you baked pasta.
That rabbi really does sound like a pain in the neck.
--Thanks for sharing this; I didn't know this about Jewish tradition. Very sorry for the loss of your grandfather, though, and sending you and your family lots of love (and retroactive desserts).
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We didn't actually bake the ziti, I just call the sause+cheese+ziti mixture 'baked ziti.' A different relative had sent over that dinner. I never actually saw the second pasta dish. *g* It got stuck in the fridge or freezer and disappeared -- I hope someone ate it or it got put in the freezer.
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That synagogue has gone through multiple cantors and assistant rabbis because he runs it like a one man show. They can't get rid of him because of various politics that got him a lifetime contract, and now the congregation is just used to it and doesn't care; my aunt brushed it off when my dad mentioned his annoyance. So my sister and I got instated as service leaders and it could be passed off as wholly parental pride that we were capable of leading.
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Also what, Huckleberry Finn is an awesome book! :P
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