I think, you are right. I also think, he is a bit jelous, because I met this new people at work, most of them I like, I visit them at home, then there is this guy, I really like, he spents the night at my home and I at his home. I have a life outside the net, he said a few month ago, that he feels lonely. But that doesn´t give him the right, do say this things to me.
Before this argument, I have told you about before, we had another, smaller one, because I have told him about that guy from work and that he spend the night with me. A few weeks after that, he told me the reason why he shouldn´t have answer my question who he was feeling (I never noticed that he didn´t answer, because he said, that work was bad, so how could you feel then?).
He has the theory, that everything I told about this guy from work was a lie, because I was jelous about a woman - which I didn´t even know - who has visit him and it wasn´t my style to let a man sleep at my house.
So, I am a liar with a cheap and and lowbrow humour. When I read this again while I am writing it, i have every right to be mad. I have written about all this at my own livejournal, hoping to get an advice, what I should do now. Unfortuntelly nobody has answered.
I am a bit disappointed because I would describe us as good friends since our trainee days at school, I have never imagined he would react like that.
Aww, I didn't see that post in your lj (I was away from lj for a while and in the end I didn't catch up on my flist from that time), I would have replied if I had seen it. Sorry about that! (Also sorry about not replying to this comment last night - I was actually writing those drabbles for scifiland! :D)
This guy sounds like he's being a drama queen. :/ Yeah, it's possible that he's lonely and maybe he even has some problems, but it still doesn't give him the right to take it out on you or to accuse you of lying or to treat you bad in any way. I'm happy that you have other friends who are good for you and balance it out! :D
Don´t worry about not reading my lj entry, as I said, I just needed an advice. Today, this guy is online for the first time in a month or so, I still don´t know, if I should do the first step and write him something or not.
But even if I decided to write him first, I don´t know what to write, after such a long time I just can´t write "Hello, how are you and how was work?"
But I am happy too, that I have some other friends now, they are all crazy, but in a positive way.
Before this argument, I have told you about before, we had another, smaller one, because I have told him about that guy from work and that he spend the night with me. A few weeks after that, he told me the reason why he shouldn´t have answer my question who he was feeling (I never noticed that he didn´t answer, because he said, that work was bad, so how could you feel then?).
He has the theory, that everything I told about this guy from work was a lie, because I was jelous about a woman - which I didn´t even know - who has visit him and it wasn´t my style to let a man sleep at my house.
So, I am a liar with a cheap and and lowbrow humour. When I read this again while I am writing it, i have every right to be mad. I have written about all this at my own livejournal, hoping to get an advice, what I should do now. Unfortuntelly nobody has answered.
I am a bit disappointed because I would describe us as good friends since our trainee days at school, I have never imagined he would react like that.
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This guy sounds like he's being a drama queen. :/ Yeah, it's possible that he's lonely and maybe he even has some problems, but it still doesn't give him the right to take it out on you or to accuse you of lying or to treat you bad in any way. I'm happy that you have other friends who are good for you and balance it out! :D
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But even if I decided to write him first, I don´t know what to write, after such a long time I just can´t write "Hello, how are you and how was work?"
But I am happy too, that I have some other friends now, they are all crazy, but in a positive way.
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