I'm sorry if this makes me a bad friend...
but I don't know anything unless you tell me. I can't take a hint.
All I want is some communication, because communication is what makes relationships and friendships strong. When communication stops happening, things crumble.
Most of you know that nothing matters more to me than a friend of mine's happiness, even if that happiness is without me. I am not ashamed to admit my faults, I'm far from being a perfect person. I'm irritable, offensive and I take actions and words from my friends way too personally. If I realize that there's something I've been doing wrong, I will recognize the problem, admit my fault, and stop doing it. But in all situations there are two sides. Each side usually saying "I'm right, your behaviour is wrong". Which is bullshit. Situations are SITUATIONS, NOT PEOPLE. There are several other factors that go into situations like environment and timing. If there's a problem between two or more people, it's never all because of one person. So I guess what I'm trying to say is whenever you have a problem with somebody, first take a deep breath and remind yourself that you care about this person and because you do you will try to work out the situation and find a common ground, or whichever solution will be best, rather than making them feel guilty for your pain. The latter never fixes anything. Just makes people more cranky.
All I want is some communication, because communication is what makes relationships and friendships strong. When communication stops happening, things crumble.
Most of you know that nothing matters more to me than a friend of mine's happiness, even if that happiness is without me. I am not ashamed to admit my faults, I'm far from being a perfect person. I'm irritable, offensive and I take actions and words from my friends way too personally. If I realize that there's something I've been doing wrong, I will recognize the problem, admit my fault, and stop doing it. But in all situations there are two sides. Each side usually saying "I'm right, your behaviour is wrong". Which is bullshit. Situations are SITUATIONS, NOT PEOPLE. There are several other factors that go into situations like environment and timing. If there's a problem between two or more people, it's never all because of one person. So I guess what I'm trying to say is whenever you have a problem with somebody, first take a deep breath and remind yourself that you care about this person and because you do you will try to work out the situation and find a common ground, or whichever solution will be best, rather than making them feel guilty for your pain. The latter never fixes anything. Just makes people more cranky.