Nov 19, 2006 14:28
Usually, when friends stop being just that, I would get upset.
but let's look at this as far as the big picture, if these people were REALLY my friends, well then why aren't they here now? Why don't they call me? It's funny, because the answer is simple: they just were never my friends.
So, if you all want to play some more high school games like "I'm mad at you, so I am not going to answer the phone if you call" or my favorite- "Everyone else is invited, but you." Then go ahead and keep playing your games. Keep making the same mistakes by refusing to grow and take time to think and analyze the people around you and how they affect your everyday life.
but just know, that I won't be playing those games, I won't cross my arms and turn around and say "Fine, be that way". I can keep my nose parallel to the ground, too. And I just choose to be the better, more responsible, person and keep on going with my life.
If you've ever done something in hopes that it would get to me, or tried to make me mad, you failed. Just like you will with everything in your lives. While the initial hurt was there, I learned. You guys are the type of mistake that I could NEVER make again. Because the warning signs are just too obvious.
I have confidence in what I do. And when I make mistakes, I get right back up. I'm obviously doing someting right, because I am still here. And I am still very happy with my life.