F U FOOL
I'm so confused. He's in the right, or am I? Or is it even about right and wrong?
Listen, here's the deal. my ex and I have been apart for one week.
He sends me a message today saying, "help!" and I'm like thinking, oh my goodness, something has happened. so I ask "what?"
and then he just copy and pastes a bunch of messages from some girl who was hitting on him and inviting him to her birthday party. It's so fucked up and hurtful. I couldn't even stand it.
So I just go along with the conversation, but I pull a crazy move and send the girl a message saying something like, "can you not hit on my ex one week after we end?"
and I'm like, "oh shit. that was bad." so I tell him I did it just because I obviously should be honest about it if I'm going to make such a dumb mistake. I made her feel bad and took out my anger at him on her. not good. very bad.
but he just gets all uppity, not at the fact that I was mean or that that wasn't my place, but because, WAIT FOR IT FOLKS!
he was just trying to relate to me since I get hit on my old gross dudes all the time!
i'm sorry, you're trying to relate to me? That's why you say hurtful things?
keep in mind folks, this is the same guy who fucking sent me messages about how a girl's hand felt like sand paper as she jerked his cock when he fingered her. Oh, this was during our last break up.
Yeah.
So. what the fuck.
but then he really was trusting me with sensitive information, and I really blew it. I feel so bad about that. I really do. Sigh. :(
So is he right to be upset? Probably. Am I? probably.
Maybe we're both right. And both hurt.
Listen, here's the deal. my ex and I have been apart for one week.
He sends me a message today saying, "help!" and I'm like thinking, oh my goodness, something has happened. so I ask "what?"
and then he just copy and pastes a bunch of messages from some girl who was hitting on him and inviting him to her birthday party. It's so fucked up and hurtful. I couldn't even stand it.
So I just go along with the conversation, but I pull a crazy move and send the girl a message saying something like, "can you not hit on my ex one week after we end?"
and I'm like, "oh shit. that was bad." so I tell him I did it just because I obviously should be honest about it if I'm going to make such a dumb mistake. I made her feel bad and took out my anger at him on her. not good. very bad.
but he just gets all uppity, not at the fact that I was mean or that that wasn't my place, but because, WAIT FOR IT FOLKS!
he was just trying to relate to me since I get hit on my old gross dudes all the time!
i'm sorry, you're trying to relate to me? That's why you say hurtful things?
keep in mind folks, this is the same guy who fucking sent me messages about how a girl's hand felt like sand paper as she jerked his cock when he fingered her. Oh, this was during our last break up.
Yeah.
So. what the fuck.
but then he really was trusting me with sensitive information, and I really blew it. I feel so bad about that. I really do. Sigh. :(
So is he right to be upset? Probably. Am I? probably.
Maybe we're both right. And both hurt.