Apr 20, 2010 13:18
I started my new job after months of not working but I am having an issue. There is someone I work with, a girl who I think has it in for me. She has made comments that seem to be directed at me, direct indirects I would say. I do not really want to have any problems so I have let them slide but my mom thinks I should let my manager know. I don't know because I don't want to have a problem although my mom says it's better for me to tell him instead of blowing up at the girl when she goes too far. My mom wants to prevent my temper from coming up because it can be fierce, that's why I try to let things slide because when I get mad it is not pretty, I have my dad's temper.
The thing is that she was so nice at first and then did like a 180 and now she seems to be weird. It seems like she goes out of her way to make comments, and I know they are directed at me although she tries her best to generalize them. I don't know if she feels intimidated by me and the knowledge I have but I have been courteous to her but I cannot continue to do so. I cannot be nice when she is behaving in that manner. I kind of alluded to the problem with my manager last night but I didn't want to come right out and say it although he is very astute and I think he knew what I was talking about.
Well we shall see. If this continues something will have to be done because I will not put up with it. I will not be anybody's doormat. Homie don't play that.