Friends

[d_dog]

Wow what a realization I just had after talking to my sister. I hate having friends. I somehow find something to make me dislike everyone. There have been only three people now who I have not done this to. One in Montana, one never around, the other just makes me happy. I need to stop this habit I have of being annoyed by everyone. Tell me whats

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[stichomythia]

hey dev...this is victor (cheng)...yeah, i have that habit of being annoyed by everyone...usually i deal with it by avoiding them and end up being alone...but i know that i can't do that all my life so what i do is try to think of other aspects of the person rather than be annoyed by them...i mean, in the end, it's not up to you to change other people to how you would like....only real thing you can do is change yourself and the way you think...it's tough, but if you want any change you just have to start with yourself....even if people make it hard...it's tough being sincere, hence why i myself don't have many real friends...sometimes people be fake because if they were sincere they would just wear themselves out because there is so much going on in their worlds...

plus having a variety of friends works pretty well i think...because say one type of friend pisses you off, it will make you appreciate your other ones so much more that they don't piss you off like that one person...eventually the other will piss you off and you'll appreciate how the original person didn't piss you off in that way...