Let's Talk About Sex Baby

[czjtrojan]

Two years ago I would never have thought about writing an entry like this, which I suppose goes to show how much two years, two continents and a debilitating disease and traumatic surgery can change one's mind about a major topic like sex.
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In the past, I looked on sex somewhat like Madonna does: express yourself, don't repress yourself, erotic,

Comments

[jj79]

I understand being horny and getting embarrassed and whatnot, but being completely upfront with the other guy still seems to be the best idea, no matter who he might be. Just like you chit chat about what you want to do or where you're going to do it, bringing this particular concern to the forefront could go a long way to making sure there are no feelings of inadequacy or mocking.

It's a fact of your life right now and, by extension, the lives of anyone you choose to be with. So if they really wanted to be a GGG lover (good, giving, game according to Dan Savage), this is just like needing your nipples nibbled on or ass licked. If the experience is going to be mutually satisfying, these are the conditions. Take it or leave it.

(BTW, regardless of scars or GWB or whatever else, I don't believe you're anything but loveable, super cute and worthy of someone kissing your feet---well, if you're into that foot stuff, obviously. :D )

[czjtrojan]

My feet are too ticklish!

[jj79]

Oy. All that and you come up with "my feet are too ticklish!" :D :D

[czjtrojan]

Well other than saying "hear hear" there wasn't too much to add and nothing to disagree with :) But, in other news, as I'm sure I'll write this afternoon, I just ordered a support belt that will hide Mr. Bush (I'm trying to think of names for this new appliance, preferably with positive connotations. Something that supports and hides Paris Hilton and George W. Bush...ideas?) which will be good not just for when I'm in an "intimate" situation, as the product details say, but also when I start having to wear dress pants to work which I wear higher up on my waist than casual pants.

[jj79]

Ah, so you wear your casual pants down by your ankles. You're one of THOSE kind of guys! Boy Scout mottot: Always be prepared (for whatever may come your way) *giggle*