Grow or die
My relationship with Johnny has grown significantly since I moved here, but I might be killing it now. He's happy with the way things are and from what I can tell, he is happy touching base on the phone a few times a day, without actually having a conversation and then seeing me just on weekends.
Is it unreasonable for me to want more than that out of my relationship? It was my choice to move here to be close to my parents and pursue my career, and we kept the relationship because I thought I was moving back in a year. Now I'm beginning to see results and that in order to gain financial stability I must stay. At least for a few years. Unfair of me to ask him to move, but if we aren't going to be living in the same city anytime in the next few years, why not just let go?
Is it unreasonable for me to want more than that out of my relationship? It was my choice to move here to be close to my parents and pursue my career, and we kept the relationship because I thought I was moving back in a year. Now I'm beginning to see results and that in order to gain financial stability I must stay. At least for a few years. Unfair of me to ask him to move, but if we aren't going to be living in the same city anytime in the next few years, why not just let go?