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it is hitting me today and i have been crying since waking up.
have to deal now with final arrangements, funeral homes, will.
nancy spoke to my superintendent so they will hold off on the rent for a while. they are coming to get me later so i can make phone calls from their place since doing it on my cell would be too expensive.
don't know what to do about work. nancy's daughter who works there let my supervisor know yesterday why i wasn't in and was going to tell them today about my father dying. today and tomorrow are my regular days off, and i have a doctor appt tomorrow afternoon in which i will ask for documentation for stress leave of up to three weeks. employment insurance apparently covers this, and i will need the time to get my father's papers sorted out and dealt with.
nancy will help clear out my father's room at Trillium. she offered to do it without my being there but i want to be there, it is part of what will make things more final, part of the process. i went in last night to see my father's body for the same reason.
time to take a shower and get ready to go out.
have to deal now with final arrangements, funeral homes, will.
nancy spoke to my superintendent so they will hold off on the rent for a while. they are coming to get me later so i can make phone calls from their place since doing it on my cell would be too expensive.
don't know what to do about work. nancy's daughter who works there let my supervisor know yesterday why i wasn't in and was going to tell them today about my father dying. today and tomorrow are my regular days off, and i have a doctor appt tomorrow afternoon in which i will ask for documentation for stress leave of up to three weeks. employment insurance apparently covers this, and i will need the time to get my father's papers sorted out and dealt with.
nancy will help clear out my father's room at Trillium. she offered to do it without my being there but i want to be there, it is part of what will make things more final, part of the process. i went in last night to see my father's body for the same reason.
time to take a shower and get ready to go out.