Do you think this person is talking about their partner?
https://markmanson.net/toxic-relationship-habits
When you read an article like this, and you go down the list, and you find yourself mentally counting off, “Yup, does that, does that, does that, does that…”
…There might be a problem.
And I’m going to note here that there is a virtual item number zero on this list, which is “keeping score” in the first place. You don’t have to have both partners doing it for it to be toxic. If EITHER partner is keeping score, that is toxic.
#relationships #MentalHealth