State of denial
Denial is part of human nature. When something unpleasent happpens the
very first reaction is "Is it true??? Do he really mean what he
says???". But guessing and denial will only bring more unanswered
questions and eventually depression. I guess this will apply to most of
the people out there, regardless of their sex, race or nationality.
Eventually in order to move out of the loop, i guess time will make one
forget. Only the stronger ones will move out of the loop in a shorter
time and hopefully i am one of them.