Apr 05, 2004 18:34
I was watching What a Girl wants last night on HBO. It's such a cute movie with a cute guy in it. well ne ways the point of the story is amanda bynes goes looking for her father bc he supposedly left her and did not know about the pregnancy. ne ways she goes and finds him and he is a Lord. They bond together and all that crap, and she finally has a father. But he has to uphold a sense of decency and she is an American teenage girl which in Britain royalty is not good ne ways he tells her she needs to become more proper and in the end she tells him I don't want to be like this anymore. And she leaves and she and her mom go back to Cali. Her father shows up and says I don't want you anyway else I wouldn't change anything about you. The moral of the story is that parents are going to love you no matter what.There love is unconditional and they SHOULD LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO WRONG. If they treat you like shit than they DON'T DESERVE TO HAVE YOU AS THEIR CHILD. because parents are supposed to be there to comfort you and show you how things are in life. See the first memory i have of me and my father is him taking me from my mom for a weekend visit and all i remember is screaming bec i had no ideal who this man was.
I've never really had a father figure in my life. It does bother me bc when i see movies like that i wish me and my dad were like that but there's a point in ur life where ur tired of trying and you just give up. I've been to that point so many times. When I was watching this it reminded me of one of my friends. She's not a good kid nor is she a bad one either but while growing up she was a diliquent(spell). Her parents I think are trying to look out for her but in the wrong way. She thinks that she always needs to live up to their expectations and well thats everyone's thing is to make their parents proud of them. But she thinks that her parents aren't proud of her and that she's screwed up so much but what she doesn't know is that if her parents really love her then they will always love her NO MATTER WHAT. It times when she's upset about it that I just wanna tell her STOP!!! stop feeling sorry for urself. If your parents are going to be like and treat you like shit then screw them and life ur life the way you want to and not try and form urself the way someone else wants you to be like.
well im off hopefully i made someone feel better