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So I know it has been like 3 years since I've posted a entry let a lone even been on this thing, but right now I feel like I need to. I'm also sure no one is even going to check this since they know I don't use this anymore but even if no one reads it I still need to write this.
So the years in highschool had some goods times and some bad, but the ( Read more... )
So the years in highschool had some goods times and some bad, but the ( Read more... )
Okay, I do agree on the sexual thing. I assumed. But has Julie told you how many people she has slept with? No. If you tell me where you are getting your facts from, I'd LOVE to prove them wrong. Julie tells me absolutly everything, and what you think(or apparently know from probably Julian) is not correct.
Your comment about the whole livejournal issue and who can post what does not make sense. I told you that it was your livejournal. I'm not stopping you. You can post whatever the fuck you want to on here. BUT, you did not disable comments or anything, so I can speack my mind.
Oh, and also, I'm not going to tell my best friend to stop doing something when she hasn't even been doing anything. Julie has forgave and forgot. She is in college now. She doesn't give a shit about this whole situation. You're the low minded bitch who wants her out of Julians life. Why on earth would you even say that to someone. Do you know how horrible that would make Julie feel? Regarding the fact that Julie is my best friend, it makes me even ashamed to be your friend. You're asking Julian to forget one of his friends. That shows that you have absolutly no trust in him. But then you say you are in love with him? Please, honey. You obviously don't know anything about that. (That right there did NOT mean I know something about that, becuase I don't.)
Anyways, you really need to stop being a hypocrite. You are assuming all of these facts when none of them are true. Again, you won't know what the hell is going on unless you talk to Julie. AND I know she has tried to talk to you, but you have simply ignored her. That is extremly rude and low. You're 19 years old. Havn't you learned that their are 2 sides of every story? And even if you don't like one of them, you just accept it?
And might I add, which one of her "close" friends has been talking shit about her to especially you? If they were her close friends, then they obviously wouldn't even be talking to you about this issue.
Finally, grow up. I cannot believe you are in college and you still are invovled with drama. You are acting like a 5 year old. I'm a senior in high school. Havn't you learned to just stay away from it. I know for a FACT that Julie has not talked about you. She's a mature 18 year old who has better things to worry about.
And I do believe everything I am saying are facts, not assumptions.
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People can love and be in love with people they don't trust. Love isn't something you can deal with in a specific way, especially since it is different with everyone.
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Let's respond to all of your comments one by one.
1)I didn't realize that now since I'm in college I am unable to write a comment fast resulting in some grammactical errors.
2) I had actually not thought about it for a while either, until I saw things julie said that were stated in the present which then made the situation come back up.
3)I'm not gonna say who so you can start shit with them too because they are friends with her and I don't want her to get mad at them, but no it was not Julian.
4)I understood you said I could say whatever I wanted, yet you still stated your opinion in a way that implied I shouldn't have said what I said- which is how I felt.
5)I wouldn't have even asked that if I really didn't think she wasn't a slut. I trust him, but she is the one I don't trust. She said it herself there is no just being friends with him. And from the same friends of hers I heard that "she was and is willing to be with any guy". So having friends who say that about her why should I believe she would care with Julian? She wouldn't. I agree that yeah it's a harsh thing to do, but he's done it to me and for that I think he should be willing to do it for me. But again, if I could truly trust her, then by all means they could stay friends. But everyone knows that is not going to happen and that there is no reason for me to trust her.
6)I have no clue what you mean when you say I ignored her?! um maybe she doesn't tell you everything, because I did respond. Thank you very much. But nice try.
7) I do know there are two sides to every story, but when the other side says that what has happened won't happen again and it does, why should I still listen to them? I know what they are going to say and I know what they will say will be all lies.
8)In case you were unaware, but people can have many friends, the can even be friends with two people who don't get along. So that's why they would talk to me about it, because I'm friends with them too. and they weren't talking shit about her they were just talking about college life and how people from our school have changed.
9)you should really take you own advise, I had forgotten this drama but then something i read of her's brought it back up to me and I wrote an innocent entry about how I felt. There was no intention for any drama to be brought out from it. And there really was no need at all for you to have any responce to it if you just think it should be forgotten. Your little friend who you think you're protecting already had told me how she felt about it. So Next time you try to insult me maybe you should think about your actions and see if your actions are the exact things you're making fun of.
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1. Let's forget about the grammar issue.
2. Did you check the date on that becuase I don't recal her saying anythin about that.
3. I'm pretty sure I thought you knew me. If you told me who those people were, I wouldn't start shit with them.
4. When I stated my opinion, I was just stating my opinion. I'm not telling you what to do on your livejournal, Kim.
5. I don't even understaand 5.
6. You must have misundertood me. When I said you ignorned her, I read your little mishap on facebook. She was telling you about what is going on between her and Julian. And it's absolutly nothing. When I said ignoring her, I meant it in a way where you ignored what she was saying. She was telling you the truth there. I don't understand how you can't believe it when the person who knows what is going on is telling you.
7. If you're saying thats happened between Julian and Julie twice, then why aren't you mad at Julian? Or are you? I mean you cannot blame everything entierly on Julian.
8. I do unsderstand that people have friends, but a friend who talks shit behind ones back is not a true friend.
9. There is no drama here between you and me whatsoever. We are both just stating our opinion. And yes I do think it should be forgotten. But you obviously didn't understand my main message. You cannot assume things unless you talk to Julie. But then again, you talked to Julie, and didn't give a rats ass on what she had to say. At least she was being thoughtful and tried to clear things up. And what exactly am I making fun of? I'm clearly trying to get you to not assume anything and talk to the people who know what's going on.
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2)Yes I did check the date, and true it wasn't like this week, but I thought this whole situation had been over for months, but the date was within this school year so yes it was news to me that the situation had occurred again. And since I had just read it, even though she had said it "awhile" ago it was really new to me so all my feelings for it were new and I wasn't hanging onto the past.
3)I thought I knew you too and I thought we were closer than we apparently are. But even if yuo didn't start shit, I'm sure you or julie would mention it to them and it was something they wanted her to know they said since they are good friends with her.
5)Was just talking about me putting him in that situation. I realize it was a harsh situation but things between me and him are between me and him and there is a lot more there then people know. And everything else I said already for #5.
6)I did misunderstand you. I ignored what she had to say about that because I heard it all before and it wasn't true, so why should I once again believe it? I stopped having expectation of people along time ago, so why should I expect her to actually do what she said she would when she never has in the past? Since the beginning of this situation, I've learned that when you have expectations you just get hurt and disappointed in the end.
7)I was mad at Julian. For the longest time I was, and even now I'm still really hurt. So no I was never just blaming her. But I was blaming her a little bit more then him, because girls are supposed to have each other’s backs. Have you ever heard the expression, chicks before dicks? That's what I expected from her, so when she chose dicks before chicks I was hurt and in disbelief. And that is why I hold more of a grudge towards her.
8)They weren't necessarily talking shit, we were all just gossiping and she came up, but no offense to that statement but I just fined it to be really ironic you say that when talking about her and this situation.
9) I responded to her response, if I misunderstood her or didn’t really respond to what she had to say she had the option to comment back and say that. The door is open to talk, but from what I've heard she'd done with me and talking to me.
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I'm not one of the people, and I don't see how I could possibly be, considering the fact that I don't ask you personal questions, such as those concerning your sex life, and therefore I would never comment about it.
I'm not going to say the people's names because you're just going to confront them and they're going to deny, deny, deny, and say that I'm lying or that Kim is lying or that whomever is lying. Trust me (and I know this is probably very hard for you to do at this point), but trust me when I say that your friends will lie to you just so they won't have to admit their faults. That they DID open their big mouths and that they DID say some stuff that you'd have preferred them not to, and perhaps even swore them to secrecy. It's just how life is. You can believe whatever you want to believe, and whomever you want to believe, but take it from me, friends talk about their friends all the time, and there's nothing you can do about it.
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