1. If I had to pick a year where my goals in life changed the most this past year probably would have been it. I don't know if turning 18 changed my perspective on things, or if having a larger group of older friends did, but I put a lot more thought into the future then I ever used to. I guess the whole school issue has to do with that also. Sometimes my goals even for like marriage and having children, get me worrried to much. Not to say I'm going to anytime soon, but I want it all to be perfect and I feel like everything I do now effects that. My main current goal is to get a college diploma, preferably from Berklee.
2. I can actually tend to be really picky here, but I'm really open to new things as well. I like a guy who understands me and I used to say someone who at least "tries" to understand me, however now I think its important that they actually do. I need to understand him as well, although it doesnt bother me if they're hard to read as long as with time I can figure them out. I like someone who's willing to listen but comfortable enough to say their ears need a break when I've spoken for too long. I want them to feel comfortable opening up as well. I like to have common interests but also enough differences to make things different and to give us a chance to try new things. They NEED to be fun. I like a guy who knows how to have lots of fun but also knows how to be serious when needed. I really like a happy medium there. I like a guy who is generally nice, and not just to me, but to everyone else around him. He needs to have similar views to me on things like homosexuality. He needs to be friendly towards my mom. I like a guy to be willing to get to know MY friends as well as me getting to know his. Okay I could go on and on and on forever about this. Those are just some of the things though. Oh yeah...I like a guy thats good with kids.
3. I think I'm pretty good at music. I can pick up most any instrument pretty fast. I don't really share that talent with anybody though. Hmph. I also would like to think I'm pretty good at being a friend.
2. I can actually tend to be really picky here, but I'm really open to new things as well. I like a guy who understands me and I used to say someone who at least "tries" to understand me, however now I think its important that they actually do. I need to understand him as well, although it doesnt bother me if they're hard to read as long as with time I can figure them out. I like someone who's willing to listen but comfortable enough to say their ears need a break when I've spoken for too long. I want them to feel comfortable opening up as well. I like to have common interests but also enough differences to make things different and to give us a chance to try new things. They NEED to be fun. I like a guy who knows how to have lots of fun but also knows how to be serious when needed. I really like a happy medium there. I like a guy who is generally nice, and not just to me, but to everyone else around him. He needs to have similar views to me on things like homosexuality. He needs to be friendly towards my mom. I like a guy to be willing to get to know MY friends as well as me getting to know his. Okay I could go on and on and on forever about this. Those are just some of the things though. Oh yeah...I like a guy thats good with kids.
3. I think I'm pretty good at music. I can pick up most any instrument pretty fast. I don't really share that talent with anybody though. Hmph. I also would like to think I'm pretty good at being a friend.
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