this day has gone from bad to worse.

[cutebrunette224]

aren't i a little postwhore.
but i figured i'd let you guys know a few things about me.
i just left all my friends.
i couldnt handle being hurt again.
and im bi.|i came out this summer and lost 3 friends because of it. my ex girlfriend, ignores me now.|
im alone except for you guys<3

Comments

[hack_tic]

its sad that youve lost friends this way, but in a way arent you glad that youre not going to associate with people who feel that way? at least they were open about their feelings.

as for coming out to your family, do it when youre good and ready.

my best friend came out a good few years ago but her family are very strict christians, and I mean strict, they were scary. she came out to us and of course we're all fine with that, and i asked her about her parents. she said that one day she was in the living room at a stupid hour and everyone was in bed, and she decided she was just going to do it, and tell them. she went upstairs to her parents room and woke her mum up and told her, her mum turned around and said "thats ok, we kind of figured anyway". i think a massive weight lifted off of her shoulders when that happened, she must have felt so so so pained that she felt she couldnt talk to her parents but in the end they were ok with it anyway. she's now living with her gf and theyve been together for a good few years.
I sincerely hope that when you feel like having that talk with your family itll be ok, it takes alot to be turned against by your family.

is there a local LGBT scene near you, youre bound to find friends there who will accept you for you, maybe start by looking one up on here.

*hugs*

[cutebrunette224]

thankyou you made me feel
so much better. :)
and I guess I do feel better knowing I don't have to deal with people who couldn't handle it. I think I might wait another year before I tell my parents, and im deffinately going to look up LGBT communities near me. thankyou. feel free to contact me in any way if you want.