Update
I've been working on my house now for 6 months while living with my parents. Just about every weekend I go out there. In the past 7 months I have.
Installed a master bathroom.
Rebuilt the master bedroom.
Completly repainted the exterior.
Replaced 5 roten windows.
Raised the back end of the house 3"
I started on the kitchen last week. By Feburary it will be twice the size, have new cabinets and SS appliances.
Now this is where the emotional stuff starts. The house has changed so much, and I have been working in it for so long that it does not bother me any more. I dont think about it as much as I use to. It dosent make me uncomfortable anymore.
I'm moving back into it as soon as I finnish the kitchen because I want to. I have a few friends and a sister that were very close to Kyser and still feel very uncomfortable at my house. I am very aware of their discomfort and very simpathetic for them.
I want very badly for my house to be back to normal, but it wont be back to normal until all of my closest friends can feel as comfortable and as at peace with the situation as I do now. I understand that it cannot be forced, encouraged or even suggested. I believe that each will come to terms with their anamosity in their own time.
Until then. Its an open door policy.
Also, I just bought my first car. No more camery.
Installed a master bathroom.
Rebuilt the master bedroom.
Completly repainted the exterior.
Replaced 5 roten windows.
Raised the back end of the house 3"
I started on the kitchen last week. By Feburary it will be twice the size, have new cabinets and SS appliances.
Now this is where the emotional stuff starts. The house has changed so much, and I have been working in it for so long that it does not bother me any more. I dont think about it as much as I use to. It dosent make me uncomfortable anymore.
I'm moving back into it as soon as I finnish the kitchen because I want to. I have a few friends and a sister that were very close to Kyser and still feel very uncomfortable at my house. I am very aware of their discomfort and very simpathetic for them.
I want very badly for my house to be back to normal, but it wont be back to normal until all of my closest friends can feel as comfortable and as at peace with the situation as I do now. I understand that it cannot be forced, encouraged or even suggested. I believe that each will come to terms with their anamosity in their own time.
Until then. Its an open door policy.
Also, I just bought my first car. No more camery.