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So I've made some friends Jason's friends wife Rachael and I get along well. She stops in when their older daughter is in karate and we hang out for a bit, their youngest is Lyra's age and the three girls get along really well. It's nice because Jason and Marc have total man crushes on each other and J and I have never had a couple we both liked.
And Donna who is a Mom from preschool, we've been chatty since I moved here, Alyss and Ace are like Besties, and we walk to and from school together, today she stopped by to see if we wanted to go to the playground, she lives right around the corner and we'll probably be spending a lot of time at the splash pad together again this year, however this year we'll be hanging out on purpose. It's nice to no other nerdy Moms with crazy hair.
But then there is Stacey. Who is nice, don't get me wrong. But she is always on my last nerve. I added her to FB so I could give her some info on Chambers Foods. She is always late, consistently 15 minutes or more and it's never the understandable kids made me late thing it's always an "I slept through my alarm" or "I didn't set the alarm but the kids slept in." And it's always on her day for preschool which leaves everyone wondering if the kids will get a snack or not. She invited me to her daughters 3rd Birthday and I told her I didn't know if I could make it. Whatever. Then she removed me from FB (I didn't notice).
She mentioned the party a few more times and I kept saying that I didn't want to commit because I didn't know how the kids would be. She cornered me the other day about it, which was when I found out she'd removed me from FB, and I told I couldn't say, Aislyn has been acting out lately and I'm not going to commit to a birthday party when it's likely she's not going to behave well enough to go (she has been biting and we have canceled every play date we've made with Nancy because of her behavior lately). That's when she said she'd add me back to FB and send me her address (which she never sent). Then today she asked me if I was going to come tomorrow. I told her for the 6th time that I didn't think so, I have a ton to do tomorrow (which I do my house is a sty, it's supposed to be nice and I have epic laundry to do). Then she lays the "well I made Ace a loot bag, you should come 1-4" Part of me wants to say "I still don't know where you live" but then she'll tell me and I'll feel obligated.
At the same time I really hate that she constantly talks about how good friends Ace and Gabby are. Which they are not. I mean they don't hate each other but I've never seen them interact at preschool. Ace never mentions Gabby. Gabby picks at the other kids and it seems almost like Ace avoids her. And who knows maybe on the days I'm not there they do play together. But I would probably feel differently if Ace did talk about her like she does Gavyn, Alyss, Abby, and Aarolyn.
But mostly she's just a very needy woman, who one ups and knows everything and I can't deal with that. They lived in NS for 2 years and one day while it's looking like rain she says "yeah I'm used to way more rain then this I used to live in NS" and I made D= face. Bitch I lived in Nova Scotia for 18 years Spring in On > Spring in NS GTFO. Oh god she kills my brain. And I feel bad, she is genuinely trying to be nice and it is just a personality clash. But god woman I polietly told you no 6 times and you still made a guilt laden loot bag.
And Donna who is a Mom from preschool, we've been chatty since I moved here, Alyss and Ace are like Besties, and we walk to and from school together, today she stopped by to see if we wanted to go to the playground, she lives right around the corner and we'll probably be spending a lot of time at the splash pad together again this year, however this year we'll be hanging out on purpose. It's nice to no other nerdy Moms with crazy hair.
But then there is Stacey. Who is nice, don't get me wrong. But she is always on my last nerve. I added her to FB so I could give her some info on Chambers Foods. She is always late, consistently 15 minutes or more and it's never the understandable kids made me late thing it's always an "I slept through my alarm" or "I didn't set the alarm but the kids slept in." And it's always on her day for preschool which leaves everyone wondering if the kids will get a snack or not. She invited me to her daughters 3rd Birthday and I told her I didn't know if I could make it. Whatever. Then she removed me from FB (I didn't notice).
She mentioned the party a few more times and I kept saying that I didn't want to commit because I didn't know how the kids would be. She cornered me the other day about it, which was when I found out she'd removed me from FB, and I told I couldn't say, Aislyn has been acting out lately and I'm not going to commit to a birthday party when it's likely she's not going to behave well enough to go (she has been biting and we have canceled every play date we've made with Nancy because of her behavior lately). That's when she said she'd add me back to FB and send me her address (which she never sent). Then today she asked me if I was going to come tomorrow. I told her for the 6th time that I didn't think so, I have a ton to do tomorrow (which I do my house is a sty, it's supposed to be nice and I have epic laundry to do). Then she lays the "well I made Ace a loot bag, you should come 1-4" Part of me wants to say "I still don't know where you live" but then she'll tell me and I'll feel obligated.
At the same time I really hate that she constantly talks about how good friends Ace and Gabby are. Which they are not. I mean they don't hate each other but I've never seen them interact at preschool. Ace never mentions Gabby. Gabby picks at the other kids and it seems almost like Ace avoids her. And who knows maybe on the days I'm not there they do play together. But I would probably feel differently if Ace did talk about her like she does Gavyn, Alyss, Abby, and Aarolyn.
But mostly she's just a very needy woman, who one ups and knows everything and I can't deal with that. They lived in NS for 2 years and one day while it's looking like rain she says "yeah I'm used to way more rain then this I used to live in NS" and I made D= face. Bitch I lived in Nova Scotia for 18 years Spring in On > Spring in NS GTFO. Oh god she kills my brain. And I feel bad, she is genuinely trying to be nice and it is just a personality clash. But god woman I polietly told you no 6 times and you still made a guilt laden loot bag.