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[curlyqangelgirl]

THANK GOODNESS! Ugh, I actually changed this entire thing to Greek writing earlier. I was about to cry because LJ people replied and said it was my keyboard and I was like "I don't even know what I did!" Luckily, all the other programs were working and this one seems to still be fine as well which is always a plus

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GRRRR!

[anonymous]

Okay, I must state that I'm quite sick of this. I don't know both sides of the story but I know Claire's. That's all I need to know at the moment. To be bluntly honest, I've seen or more so should I say heard a side of you I really don't like, Andi. I think you just need to let this go and stop attacking Claire. What's done is done and having you bitch at her isn't going to make things better. As it seems to me, you can't step out of your own little world.

"Think not what others have done to you but what you have done to others."

I've had many a conversation with Claire about this lately and I perfectly understand her side. I can see what you won't drop either but her side doesn't seem to be able to break through the barriers of how life is in Andi's world.

Okay, Claire was trying to balance this thing called a life, which I don't have but she actually does. She had exams and had to deal with granparent and HPB and she did what she could for Tsuki but it was dead anyway so other things in her life were bumped up on the "need to do list." Then, something happens to where you two get in a fight and you tell her that either she needs to devote herself to Tsuki or leave. Basically, that's what was said even if you refuse to believe it. And she had a life and other things to do: School, Home, Friends (in RL), HPB and Tsuki. She had to balance all of these things out and since Tsuki went dead for a while you would think you could cut her some slack.

Next, she wouldn't have been able to hold up to your expectations. You might say you only had a few things you needed her to do and she didn't get them done but really, I don't agree with this way of running a site. I believe that the work that is 'given' out should be voluntary. Yes, I realize maybe she did say "I'll do that" and maybe then she didn't but it shouldn't be required of someone to do work in order to keep a position. Someone should get a position because of how helpful they are and how useful they are to a site and then whenever they have time they should be able to do as much as they can for the site. It shouldn't be the other way around. But that's just my opinion. So, faced with the choice of being hold down to a 'do this or lose your rank and while your at it if you won't comit fully to tsuki you might as well leave' obviously she cannot give her full attention to the site as you would like so her only choice was basically to leave.

By the way, I know you will take this all wrong and blow it out of proportion because from the side I've seen that's just you. It seems anyone who dare stand in your way or oppose your thinking immediately gets attacked. "They did me wrong" way of thinking is just how you see it. I'm trying to stop an on going arguement or 'attacking' if you will about a pointless battle. YOU GAVE CLAIRE THE CHOICE AND SHE TOOK IT! She had to take it because she couldn't give you what you asked for! I'm sure she would have been perfectly fine with helping out whenever she could but that wasn't good enough for you. That's how I see it at least.