Disclaimer: This entry is focused almost entirely on the dynamics of heterosexual attraction. Obviously, it is important to examine attraction between all genders, but I’m focusing on the heterosexual attraction of men towards women for two reasons. First, heterosexuality is the only thing I can write about from personal experience. Second, the
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Vince man -- did I ever tell you about the other Vince I know? He's a 40-year-old fuzzy-bearded pot-smoking hippy whom we have affectionately dubbed the Garden gnome --
my question, I guess, is do men really internalize media images? I'm pretty much a 'size 10' and, well, I find that my sex life is just dandy so far as the hetro half of it goes.. personally, I think it's just as likely that straight men are wired to find certain characteristics attractive, especially from an evolutionary standpoint, as it is that men take their cues from outside sources. Certainly, some of your points make sense. Confidence is attractive, and straight women surely draw confidence both from sexual successes with men and from positive ego-stroking from outside sources like friends and social standards of beauty, and lose confidence with lack of sexual success, etc. But I question whether you can draw such strong, even causal relationships, from the media to women's confidence, to men's sexual success, to men's ( ... )
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The other Vince is like you'd be if you went grey and got bitter about how little your government loves you. Or.. more bitter.
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Hey Roeper, remember when Siskel was still alive and no one gave a shit about you?? Yeah, don't be generalizing male experiance based on your own superunderqualified-for-your-current-job/never-learned-how-to-write-anything-interesting opinion. When you can review a movie and tell me anything useful about its quality, come back and generalize something, and we'll go from there. Until then, get your vastly overstayed its welcome replacement ass back into its obscurity hole. that would be lovely.
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