you are reminding me of myself and my ginger. i used to talk about jon to him ALL the time (usually about bad stuff and how he's an asshole, obviously), but it still must have been hard to deal with. why was i so obsessed with him, and how come i just couldn't drop it?
but i find that lately, it doesn't matter anymore because i find myself happy with aaron. and hopefully the same thing will happen to you too. i know i'm a hypocrite because i can't follow my own advice, but you should just try to let it go because i know if i would have done that i could have spent a lot more time being happier... i mean, i obviously don't know everything going on here, but perhaps it is tiring to hear about max all the time for this boy. i know i tired gingerhead stronghands (that's his new nickname now) out, but he loved me enough to listen. and talking and listening is all good and whatever, but it would be best to just move on (for the both of you). and i know how impossible that seems, and it's easier said than done. definitely. i've tried for YEARS to move on from this, and i think i finally made it. so it IS possible. -_-
how was that pointed out to you? unless you don't want to discuss it. but him moving on and the both of you being sure of that is a pretty good reason to just forget about it. lots of other people love you too.
i'm glad you appreciate my advice, at least. i see so much shit happen and it's good that i can at least help, even a little bit. anytime, cari.
but i find that lately, it doesn't matter anymore because i find myself happy with aaron. and hopefully the same thing will happen to you too. i know i'm a hypocrite because i can't follow my own advice, but you should just try to let it go because i know if i would have done that i could have spent a lot more time being happier... i mean, i obviously don't know everything going on here, but perhaps it is tiring to hear about max all the time for this boy. i know i tired gingerhead stronghands (that's his new nickname now) out, but he loved me enough to listen. and talking and listening is all good and whatever, but it would be best to just move on (for the both of you). and i know how impossible that seems, and it's easier said than done. definitely. i've tried for YEARS to move on from this, and i think i finally made it. so it IS possible. -_-
how was that pointed out to you? unless you don't want to discuss it. but him moving on and the both of you being sure of that is a pretty good reason to just forget about it. lots of other people love you too.
i'm glad you appreciate my advice, at least. i see so much shit happen and it's good that i can at least help, even a little bit. anytime, cari.
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And thanks again, Anu.
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no prob, broski.
unrelated: looking to back when we were all in high school, i CANNOT BELIEVE how things have turned out since then. wow. we are all so different.
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