Tuesday

[cu_top]

My spouse did our taxes wrong again and now we owe the State of Oregon almost $4,000.

Still think I didn't marry the wrong person?

Comments

[zen_bastard]

I don't think anyone said you didn't marry the wrong person. What I remember being said is that the other guy wasn't any better.

[cu_top]

You're right. I shouldn't have married anyone at all...

[lucienshand]

I don't know, giving people chances is a good thing, and he WAS really good about stuff for a long time. I don't think you shouldn't have given him the chance. He proved himself worthy of one, after all. But he's aubviously blowing it.

be patient and keep looking. A good way out will eventually present itself to you.

[zen_bastard]

I don't think that's true at all. What I do think, though, is that you need to sit down and ask yourself why you pick the men you do.

[cu_top]

Glutton for punishment.

[cu_top]

I got scared. I was all alone with Olivia and desparately sought out "security." I thought that Michael provided that but ever since we married, everything is going fast. He was a homeowner with a vested job. Now he is a home renter with an unstable job. And now he hates me almost as much as I hate him...and I have nowhere to go.

[zen_bastard]

I think there's more to it than that, since you've been making similar choices as long as I've known you, and that was long before Olivia. Of course, it might nt have been an obviously bad decision at the time, but there were probably clues. Was it really desperation, or are you just attracted to that sort of man?

Somehow you have to realize that you're worth more than that, and even if you can't get your head around that, Olivia certainly is.

[lucienshand]

What Pete said.
:)