These guys get it!!
http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=6320&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=7>1=8333 You know, I spent my whole childhood waiting to get out of my house. My father used to say it would get worse when I left, because I'd have to face the real world, and I had it better there with him. But he was wrong. I moved out and felt better immediately, and life since then has just been so awesome! I feel free and happy all the time.
There's more to it, I suppose.
P.S. I will post someday. When I have more free time. I've been working a lot for the past couple of months.