This is a tough one
Today was another very productive day lol....seriously 2morrow I gotta get focused..i'm not going to work...gonna do everything that I hafta do...I did however make my schedule for school next fall...it's gonna be brutal....I dunno if I can handle it..i'm already discouraged and I haven't even started.....bah....
Sooo I was talking to my friend today and she brought up this interesting topic....if ur in a close friendship (male&female) and u know that one person definetly has feelings for the other...and the other sorta has feelings but isn't sure that they wanna take it 2 the next level becuz of the risk of losing the friendship....what should they do?...stay friends n just forget the rest or take the chance and move it 2 the next level?.....
Personally....i'd like to say roll the dice and take the chance....but those close friendships can be really important to u....and if lose that then it could be devastating....my friend was like i'd rather start a relationship someone that I haven't known very long....but wouldn't u prefer being with a person u know, trust and connect with...and the connection takes awhile to form....the big downside I guess is losing that friendship if it doesn't work out.....but that doesn't necessarily happen....if it's a true friendship and the relationship doesn't work...the friendship will still be there.....and who's to say it won't work out?...that's a very pessimistic attitude...I know relationships aren't the same as friendships....but being good friends doesn't hurt.....soooo in my opinion I say take that chance...who knows what'll happen...it might be the perfect relationship...or not.....but u might just end up regretting it down the line...(I know I have...lol...i'm such a chicken!)....
I'm off to bed I think....
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Sooo I was talking to my friend today and she brought up this interesting topic....if ur in a close friendship (male&female) and u know that one person definetly has feelings for the other...and the other sorta has feelings but isn't sure that they wanna take it 2 the next level becuz of the risk of losing the friendship....what should they do?...stay friends n just forget the rest or take the chance and move it 2 the next level?.....
Personally....i'd like to say roll the dice and take the chance....but those close friendships can be really important to u....and if lose that then it could be devastating....my friend was like i'd rather start a relationship someone that I haven't known very long....but wouldn't u prefer being with a person u know, trust and connect with...and the connection takes awhile to form....the big downside I guess is losing that friendship if it doesn't work out.....but that doesn't necessarily happen....if it's a true friendship and the relationship doesn't work...the friendship will still be there.....and who's to say it won't work out?...that's a very pessimistic attitude...I know relationships aren't the same as friendships....but being good friends doesn't hurt.....soooo in my opinion I say take that chance...who knows what'll happen...it might be the perfect relationship...or not.....but u might just end up regretting it down the line...(I know I have...lol...i'm such a chicken!)....
I'm off to bed I think....
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