Apr 20, 2007 00:07
Received a call from a fren whom i known from IRC.
He is about 26 yo attach with a 43 yo guy. Lately he has an affair with another guy and emotionally attach to him.
That fling did tel him that they can chat and have fun but not as couple, because both of them has BF.
I did ask him y he still looking for fun when he still has a bf. He told me that his bf can't do it anymore. Wherever he try to touch his old man, he will push his hands away and avoid having the intimate moment. I try to speculate the problem lie with his bf.
1) His bf start to feel that his impotent is getting stronger and try to conceal it by not having sex with him;
2) he getting suspicious of my fren having affair outside and think he dirty.
Both of them still going out, having dinner, sms, etc... Doing stuff like other couple except "that". The fact is that both stay together and i can't ask him to move out for a while and let both of them think.
I told him that problem have to bring out on the table and say it clear. He has the needs and his bf try to avoid.
Mayb it difficult for me to tell him what to do but if he want the relationship to last, he need to speak up.
Sympathy his market value in the nxt few year is not the right think, else how much does the love cost?