let me just state this here and now:
THE VICTIM IS NEVER TO BLAME.
period. fucking period. it's beyond comprehension why people are sticking up for thenyxie and her husband, why they're going off on un-fucking-related tangents about paganism vs catholicism, why they don't fucking understand that IT'S NOT OKAY TO DO WHAT THENYXIE AND HER HUSBAND, ET AL, MOTHERFUCKING DID.
ugh. i just. i think it's really triggered anger in me because i've seen a lot of awesome people being triggered for painful experiences and generally upset by all of this. i know this isn't the most productive post on the topic, but i don't actually give a fuck. my brain is just too full of rage to use the intellect i possess to create any other post than this one.
now i'm gonna run to mickey d's and get me a fucking sausage mcmuffin, shit.
(ps: this is, of course, in reference to the... i won't say wank because this shit isn't even fucking wank. it's serious shit. it's a clusterfuck of a situation, that's what it is. ANYWAY. yes, this is about what started as an SPN fandom thing with thenyxie, and then took off and became a panfandom maelstrom. if you don't know what i'm talking about,
here is a rundown of events posted over at DW. WARNING: MANY LINKS/POSTS/COMMENTS HAVE TRIGGERING SUBJECTS WITHIN THEM)