Betrayed.
Ok, so heres a story for you.
My roomate and I have become quite close, best friends really. We really do everything together. Its just happened. Mostly all of our close friends are the same, we go to church together, we do family stuff together, etc.
So I met this guy. If youve been reading my posts you know the one I am speaking of. Well he and his roomate and me and mine have been hanging out almost everyday for the past few weeks.
Long story short. I told him I had feelings for him and I wanted him to know that even though I did I still wanted to be a friend someone he could talk to and not feel awkward around. Well it turned out fine, and he said he was glad I was in his life but because of his recent breakup its better to remain friends.
And even though I was sad about this there is nothing I can really do. But then after that he has been sort of advoiding me and pushing me away. And becoming closer to my roomate.
So after a while I confronted him about his actions and he said his feelings for her were strickly friendship and reminded me that because of his recent breakup he was in no position to like anyone.
So later that night, my roomate comes home crying and I have no idea why. She says that hes been telling her everything, that when I talked to him that night about my feelings he called her right away and told her, and that she has really strong feelings for him and he for her.
So basically, they have been sneaking around, pretending to be honest, trustful people, when behind my back they are being romantic?
So I havent talked to her in days. Shes been advoiding me like I did something wrong! She claims she didnt want to tell me so my feelings wouldnt be hurt. But lieing makes everything worse.
I was so upset the other night, I left my apartment at 3 in the morning and taxied to my friends on the opposite side of the city. She called and told him and he texted me to see if I was alright. NOT my bestfriend, but him.
I am soo hurt and angry. Best friends are supposed to stay clear of there other friends crush. It is just the golden rule for friends! Even if you like them, you leave it alone, walk away from it, because that is what friends do.
And we are moving tommorrow and havent said a word to eachother. And he is supposed to come by and help us move. I really dont want to see him.
OH ANNNNDDD, she went to his moms house for Thanksgiving dinner behind my back to!
Any advice?
My roomate and I have become quite close, best friends really. We really do everything together. Its just happened. Mostly all of our close friends are the same, we go to church together, we do family stuff together, etc.
So I met this guy. If youve been reading my posts you know the one I am speaking of. Well he and his roomate and me and mine have been hanging out almost everyday for the past few weeks.
Long story short. I told him I had feelings for him and I wanted him to know that even though I did I still wanted to be a friend someone he could talk to and not feel awkward around. Well it turned out fine, and he said he was glad I was in his life but because of his recent breakup its better to remain friends.
And even though I was sad about this there is nothing I can really do. But then after that he has been sort of advoiding me and pushing me away. And becoming closer to my roomate.
So after a while I confronted him about his actions and he said his feelings for her were strickly friendship and reminded me that because of his recent breakup he was in no position to like anyone.
So later that night, my roomate comes home crying and I have no idea why. She says that hes been telling her everything, that when I talked to him that night about my feelings he called her right away and told her, and that she has really strong feelings for him and he for her.
So basically, they have been sneaking around, pretending to be honest, trustful people, when behind my back they are being romantic?
So I havent talked to her in days. Shes been advoiding me like I did something wrong! She claims she didnt want to tell me so my feelings wouldnt be hurt. But lieing makes everything worse.
I was so upset the other night, I left my apartment at 3 in the morning and taxied to my friends on the opposite side of the city. She called and told him and he texted me to see if I was alright. NOT my bestfriend, but him.
I am soo hurt and angry. Best friends are supposed to stay clear of there other friends crush. It is just the golden rule for friends! Even if you like them, you leave it alone, walk away from it, because that is what friends do.
And we are moving tommorrow and havent said a word to eachother. And he is supposed to come by and help us move. I really dont want to see him.
OH ANNNNDDD, she went to his moms house for Thanksgiving dinner behind my back to!
Any advice?