weird relationships
does the amount of time you spend with your significant other determine whether or not your relationship will last? I know people who are too busy for each other and so they had to end it, but I know other people who are busy and who even live miles apart, but they are still together. yes there is always the phone and text and instant messaging, but it's obviously not the same thing as being with the other person. in contrast to that, I know of people who spent too much time with each other and got bored of the other person.
and what about couples who try to hide their relationship? I guess it would be exciting at first, but I would eventually just wanna be open about it. I can keep a secret but not for that long, especially when it deals with me. I know people have their reasons, but to me, doing that kind of takes away the joy in being in a relationship. think about it: when you're with someone, don't you tend to talk about them quite often? imagine if you couldn't do that. it's like, where's the fun in bragging?
I think that couples need to understand the limitations and availabilities of each other, but it has to be mutual. I wouldn't mind if my significant other was busy as long as he tried to spend some time with me. even if it was only for half an hour, I would still be grateful given the fact that he's busy, you know? and if you're going for the hidden relationship thing, you should really make sure it's hidden.
I don't know, relationships are weird...
and what about couples who try to hide their relationship? I guess it would be exciting at first, but I would eventually just wanna be open about it. I can keep a secret but not for that long, especially when it deals with me. I know people have their reasons, but to me, doing that kind of takes away the joy in being in a relationship. think about it: when you're with someone, don't you tend to talk about them quite often? imagine if you couldn't do that. it's like, where's the fun in bragging?
I think that couples need to understand the limitations and availabilities of each other, but it has to be mutual. I wouldn't mind if my significant other was busy as long as he tried to spend some time with me. even if it was only for half an hour, I would still be grateful given the fact that he's busy, you know? and if you're going for the hidden relationship thing, you should really make sure it's hidden.
I don't know, relationships are weird...