Gendered writing and heterosexual porn.
I want to know the percentage of bad heterosexual!porn writers who are heterosexual males. I have a theory that all the bad!fic writers who aren't very sexually immature 12-year-olds (I say "very" because I've never had sex either but I'm not completely in the dark) are heterosexual men writing either for themselves, or for other heterosexual men. Not directly, it's not like, "oh hey there Chuck I wrote this Harry/Hermione lemon for you ololol," but they subconsciously have a heterosexual male audience in mind-- in the same way that when I write, I subconsciously have an open-minded female audience in mind.
I'm saying this mostly because of something I was thinking a few weeks ago. It was about how sexual experience is not a necessity to porn-writing ('else that'd imply that no female will ever be able to write buttsex since we'll never be able to experience penetrating someone else's ass) but at the same time, it's helpful. I was reading buttsex and the guy who was being penetrated clenched his ass. And apparently that felt amazing to the other guy; tightness on his cock and all that. But that action in itself wasn't hot to me. Why? Because I don't have a cock. How the hell would I know what sticking it into something tight would feel like? And say what you like, but porn's supposed to be hot. (On a sort-of tangent here: I think that's why I often find porn where they talk/make little animalistic noises hotter than porn with just "and then he did this, and then he did that, and it was all smutty and good". Someone touching/pumping/sucking/whatever'ing someone else's cock, I don't understand. The action in itself means nothing. Someone gasping, saying something, broken dialogue, moaning, arching, wriggling, begging-- that implies more, and that I can understand.)
I'm not sure enough of my own sexuality to be able to slap a label on it without at least ten minutes extra of explanation, but I've definitely read heterosexual/lesbian porn that was hot before. And it was only recently that I realized why: because they were geared toward a female audience. It's just a theory, but I think there's a noticeable difference. The heterosexual bad!fics that I'm assuming are written by males always talk about the man's huge cock and the woman's wet pussy. (It's always super-wet for some reason.) The woman spreads her legs, says something inviting. And then the man rams his cock into her and he thrusts and they make appropriate grunting noises, during which the woman moans on and on about the man's humongous wang, and then they come; the end. Sometimes the man thrusts into her and it sounds painful; he has a 9" dick or something and he shoves in there like there's no bloody tomorrow.
I think every woman who's ever masturbated (I'd hesitate at saying "had sex", since -- like I said -- I'm inexperienced) will know that shunting a 9" object up her vagina and just pounding it mercilessly in and out of there isn't orgasm-inducing at all. I think ryotakishu was telling me once about how she thinks the G-spot doesn't exist? I don't know about that, but I know that it's not that easy to find. Also vaginae don't come drooling with wetness; women's knickers would be a terrible dripping mess at the end of every day if they were. Vaginae are wet because the chick's horny. And a lot of the time this comes with foreplay. Which rarely exists in bad!fic.
Also, I don't think it's possible for a woman who's ever masturbated to write heterosexual fic where the man doesn't do anything to the woman's clitoris-- or at least her labia. It's just not possible. Whereas... augh, I can't make any statements about male thinking without sounding like a female chauvinist pig. But I assume that they must find the whole tight/wet thing a lot hotter than women do? The whole 'huge cock' thing is maybe what they think that women like. Which I guess that some do, if you go by TV shows. And ramming it in without touching anything else, just WHAM WHAM WHAM...
I can't believe that a woman would write that. I just can't.
... lmao, if I ever do Honours, I'll write my thesis on this. I'll have to research so much porn HAHAHAHA
Do feel free to correct me if you think I'm wrong; I'd like to hear what you think. If you managed to read your way through all the COCKVAGINAPOUNDINGMASTURBATING olololol