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trust...its really an incredible concept...all relationships and friendships and whatnot are based off of it, but what if its not there? can you have a friendship without some basic form of trust? and if its broken, or if its just not been developed, then what exactly is this "friendship"? and what happens when you cant trust someone to be honest with you about whether theyve broken your trust...
i feel like everyone forgives, but no one forgets, and thats what youre suppsoed to do. but what happens when you cant let things go? thats not really forgiving...and that breaks the trust, or at least doesnt allow it to develop...so what do you do then? pretend like everything is okay? cus thats whats been happening and its not okay, but fighting about it would just cause drama, cus i cant ever have a true discussion with these people without all hell breaking loose, but without ever discussing it, you cant ever move on...i see this happen between so many people, its ridiculous, really
i feel like everyone forgives, but no one forgets, and thats what youre suppsoed to do. but what happens when you cant let things go? thats not really forgiving...and that breaks the trust, or at least doesnt allow it to develop...so what do you do then? pretend like everything is okay? cus thats whats been happening and its not okay, but fighting about it would just cause drama, cus i cant ever have a true discussion with these people without all hell breaking loose, but without ever discussing it, you cant ever move on...i see this happen between so many people, its ridiculous, really