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i was accused tonight of riducling someone..ouch
sometimes people are in so much pain...and they can only focus so much on themselves...that anything someone else says...contrary to how they feel in their own hearts...is an insult....they can't even see outsides of themselves...well..I don't need that kind of pain...
earlier..I had related...a piece of advice..that someone gave to me once...
people can't make you feel anything....you choose how to feel....
I was like "whatever"...then I thought about it for a few days.....really thought...and it kinda shook me...I realized...i am in charge..its my life and my body...and I feel....how i want to feel...no one else can make me DO anything.....they can try...say things...or do things..to make me react a certain way..but it's up to me...to push away those bad feelings....and be in control....
I'm not sure if I am explaining this well...I am feeling bit out of it...
sometimes people are in so much pain...and they can only focus so much on themselves...that anything someone else says...contrary to how they feel in their own hearts...is an insult....they can't even see outsides of themselves...well..I don't need that kind of pain...
earlier..I had related...a piece of advice..that someone gave to me once...
people can't make you feel anything....you choose how to feel....
I was like "whatever"...then I thought about it for a few days.....really thought...and it kinda shook me...I realized...i am in charge..its my life and my body...and I feel....how i want to feel...no one else can make me DO anything.....they can try...say things...or do things..to make me react a certain way..but it's up to me...to push away those bad feelings....and be in control....
I'm not sure if I am explaining this well...I am feeling bit out of it...