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what can i say....
when it comes to guys i'm retarded. i have no clue what they want and or why they want it. guys are so confusing in that way. i wish i could just say what i felt or do what i wanted knowing it would go along with what he wants. if it were up to me, i'd jump him in a second but who knows if that's what he wants. for all i know he might just want a totally platonic relationship--someone as a friend or confidant even. i'd rather have the latter than nothing at all. he's a great person. i'm afraid i'll jeopardize what could be a great friendship by going after something more--something he doesn't want in the first place. and i'm sure i'm not being too clear either. i play my "game" so to say off of whatever guy i'm dealing with. if all they want is friendship -- that's all i'll act on. and if i want more and they do too (and i know it) then i'll work with that. otherwise it's a whole mix of confusing mess that i don't get. ahhhh what to do what to do.
moral of the story: if you are a guy and you ever deal with me in any sense of anything, let me know what's up, cause chances are i don't get you.
and i probably speak for a lot of girls when i say this. i mean, don't be a creep, but definitely give us the heads up. especially 'cause if we knew what was wanted, whether friend or more, then no time is wasted trying to figure it out ("if i say this will it mean this or if i do that how will they take it?") and then comfortability settles in.
when it comes to guys i'm retarded. i have no clue what they want and or why they want it. guys are so confusing in that way. i wish i could just say what i felt or do what i wanted knowing it would go along with what he wants. if it were up to me, i'd jump him in a second but who knows if that's what he wants. for all i know he might just want a totally platonic relationship--someone as a friend or confidant even. i'd rather have the latter than nothing at all. he's a great person. i'm afraid i'll jeopardize what could be a great friendship by going after something more--something he doesn't want in the first place. and i'm sure i'm not being too clear either. i play my "game" so to say off of whatever guy i'm dealing with. if all they want is friendship -- that's all i'll act on. and if i want more and they do too (and i know it) then i'll work with that. otherwise it's a whole mix of confusing mess that i don't get. ahhhh what to do what to do.
moral of the story: if you are a guy and you ever deal with me in any sense of anything, let me know what's up, cause chances are i don't get you.
and i probably speak for a lot of girls when i say this. i mean, don't be a creep, but definitely give us the heads up. especially 'cause if we knew what was wanted, whether friend or more, then no time is wasted trying to figure it out ("if i say this will it mean this or if i do that how will they take it?") and then comfortability settles in.