wait, you're the one who decided to get him out of your life, so tell me how he managed to get you to call him back two or three times????
see how he turned it around so that now it's HIM who is not wanting to talk to you? it's a way to make it bother you so that you do keep calling him and texting or messaging, trying to get the last word.
LET IT GO! don't answer the phone if he calls. don't text him. don't call him. don't EVER make plans to see him, even if he's the one to come visit you. instead of telling him to change his number, YOU CHANGE YOUR NUMBER AND DON'T GIVE IT TO HIM!!!!!
the fact that you got even a tiny bit upset, shows that you're still not over it. ever heard that there's a thin line between love and hate?? it's so true. the only true opposite of love is INDIFFERENCE. strive for it. when he can call and you don't feel the urge to pick up, then you've got it. when he can text you something like that and you can shrug it off and delete it asap and then forget he even texted you, then you've got it. when he becomes just a vague thought in your head and you laugh at yourself for letting ONE GUY get you so twisted up inside, then you've got it. when weeks go by and you haven't heard from him and it doesn't bother you, then you've got it.
TWO final things i must say: 1- it's not him that's fucking everything up. it's you, for even giving him the chance to talk to you. let me rephrase your earlier sentence: everything was good and then you fucked it all up by answering his phone call.
2- it shouldn't take being in a new relationship to make you happy and to make everything better. until you are happy being SINGLE you will always be open to guys screwing you over. don't be so needy. be selective and super picky about who you allow the privilege of being with you. life is SHORT- you don't have the time to waste on nobodies.
see how he turned it around so that now it's HIM who is not wanting to talk to you? it's a way to make it bother you so that you do keep calling him and texting or messaging, trying to get the last word.
LET IT GO! don't answer the phone if he calls. don't text him. don't call him. don't EVER make plans to see him, even if he's the one to come visit you. instead of telling him to change his number, YOU CHANGE YOUR NUMBER AND DON'T GIVE IT TO HIM!!!!!
the fact that you got even a tiny bit upset, shows that you're still not over it. ever heard that there's a thin line between love and hate?? it's so true. the only true opposite of love is INDIFFERENCE. strive for it. when he can call and you don't feel the urge to pick up, then you've got it. when he can text you something like that and you can shrug it off and delete it asap and then forget he even texted you, then you've got it. when he becomes just a vague thought in your head and you laugh at yourself for letting ONE GUY get you so twisted up inside, then you've got it. when weeks go by and you haven't heard from him and it doesn't bother you, then you've got it.
TWO final things i must say:
1- it's not him that's fucking everything up. it's you, for even giving him the chance to talk to you. let me rephrase your earlier sentence: everything was good and then you fucked it all up by answering his phone call.
2- it shouldn't take being in a new relationship to make you happy and to make everything better. until you are happy being SINGLE you will always be open to guys screwing you over. don't be so needy. be selective and super picky about who you allow the privilege of being with you. life is SHORT- you don't have the time to waste on nobodies.
ps- sorry it's such a long comment
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