Blue Monday

[cr8zyforaf]

So, MIL is at it again. I found out that the two parties are on the same day, same time. So after much consideration and fighting -DH says we are not changing the date…now, the real question, will he stick to his guns once his mom starts ranting. She hung up on me yesterday when I told her I couldn’t change the date (BTW, since when do you tell people when they can throw a party??) - then she called back and left a message for DH to call her immediately. He called a few times and left a message - she never called back probably because she knew I was there. My guess is she will call him today at work and try to get him to cave. Can I tell you how much I hate her? I try to be nice, try to give her the benefit of the doubt but every time I do, she pulls something like this. Why can’t she ask her Aunt to change HER party - why do I always have to be the accommodating one? And she is already frantic about the 4th of July - what are we doing, where are we going, etc. I told DH - I don’t care what we do as long as it doesn’t involve her…why does she have to control us?

In other news - took Ashley to a baseball game on Saturday - she had such a good time - it was really hot but she hung out like a trooper. My dad went with us which was really nice. I need to make more of an effort to do things with just him…I really think he enjoyed having us to himself for a few hours. He just adores Ashley…which makes me happy.

Please send good thoughts my way and pray that my DH doesn’t cave to his mom because if he does, I won’t be able to forgive him. At this point, enough is enough with this woman running our lives.