Always looking for a handout

Jan 08, 2008 20:28

This is going to be dump as my time is very limited - I am working (I have reviews to do) but I feel like I need to deposit my cr*p somewhere so I can let it go and move on.  I have no idea how to bullet things ( Read more... )

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lollylu January 9 2008, 02:29:07 UTC
Well, I for one do not think you are selfish for not wanting to spend your vacation time on his family. I totally get it. (I had a similar discussion with my DH the other day).

What is up with you IL's asking, no demanding, money from you guys? My inlaws are the ones in their family who have bailed everyone out in the past. And no-one ever paid them back (not that they demanded that, but when someone says they will then they should at least attempt too, sorry I digressed). I bet your DH's grandmothers' bathroom doesn't relly have to be all ripped out...probably just needs some plumbing fixed. And none of this should be anything that you guys have to pay for! I also hope your DH doesn't give out any more extravagant gift certificates to anyone in his family. They should only go to you! Perhaps, because of the GC's, that is why his family thinks you guys are made of money?! Oh, your IL's are making me angry and I don't even know them!

That sucks that your position hasn't been created yet. Limbo is no fun.

Speaking of limbo, I really, really hope you don't get AF.

I'm sorry you have had to deal with so much crap lately. Really. With everything that's gone on for the past few months you need a break in all of this. Perhaps there is a hobby you used to persue that you could pick up again? Maybe get your mind in another place if only for a few hours a week? I'm hoping 2008 is a much happier, easier year for you and your family!

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cr8zyforaf January 9 2008, 20:03:02 UTC
DH - I so feel because his family is so much bigger and so overbearing that my family constantly gets the shaft.

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