This weekend
I have a band and it is very therapeutic. We are called Black Gate, we originate in OKC. I'm going through some tough times. I'm on my 2nd divorce. It sucks, I went into the marriage with unresolved issues with a past relationship and it contributed to the breakup of my current marriage. Anyway, the two things that keep me going is my children (from first marraige) and my music. I still love my soon to be exwife, but not enough to stay married to her. We are going to try it again, in two years (nov.2006)to see if we have fixed ourselves. If we don't have serious relationships going on at that time, we agreed to look at it again. I have no illusions I will fix my personal issues and go on with my life. I'm not hinging my expectations on getting back together with my soon to be exwife. When it comes time to meet again, I will look at where I'm at in my life. And see if my views of our relationship have changed. I'm wore out from the Drama and constant working, and practicing with my band almost everyday for the last 3 weeks. Feeling spent. Coydog72.