General Spewing - Drinking, Sex, Idiot Gem
Dream - flying over flooded houses, sleeping in the ones with no lights, running from someone.
I know labels are comforting, but if you're going to label yourself rigidly, you can't get upset when you break your OWN labeling! No labels (or more flexible ones) = less upset. If you identify as 100% hetero, then have sex with someone who doesn't fit your rule - well, that's certainly not the other person's fault.
Why is it so difficult for people to remain faithful? I saw a shiteload of this in London, but it goes for people my age, older, younger, across the economic, academic, and cultural board.
No, there is no such think as "accidentally" sleeping with someone - I don't think there's ever been such a perfectly executed double-trip-with-clothes-removal in Olympic history.
Being drunk doesn't mean you don't know what you're doing. It may give you a justified reason to DO the deed, but it doesn't absolve you of responsibility of said deed afterwards. Whatever you do (Non-consensual situations aside), you have to stand behind those choices, including choosing to drunk in the first place. Find yourself always in trouble when drinking? Here's a lightning bolt for you - don't drink, Einstein.
Ever been fucked by a goat while drunk? How about fucking a cactus? Humping your mom's leg like a daschund? No? Ah well, then it appears that your cognitive reasoning skills of preference, choice, and the healthy and appropriate, "Ok, there's no fuckin' way I'm doing THAT!" instinct are intact in your noggin while imbibing. Alcohol may present an opportunity (either positive or negative), but unless you choose to act upon it, it will pass by.
Wait, you wanna fuck a cactus, but can't seem to get up your nerve whilst sober? First, I don't blame your sober brain from bitchslapping your mind and screamin "Are you NUTS? You want to put our willy, WHERE??", but hey - to each their own. Want to use alcohol as a tool to facilitate that activity that's outside your comfort zone? Great! That's taking responsibility for your own desires!
There are no laws against idiots in this country, just the idiotic actions they may attempt.
I know labels are comforting, but if you're going to label yourself rigidly, you can't get upset when you break your OWN labeling! No labels (or more flexible ones) = less upset. If you identify as 100% hetero, then have sex with someone who doesn't fit your rule - well, that's certainly not the other person's fault.
Why is it so difficult for people to remain faithful? I saw a shiteload of this in London, but it goes for people my age, older, younger, across the economic, academic, and cultural board.
No, there is no such think as "accidentally" sleeping with someone - I don't think there's ever been such a perfectly executed double-trip-with-clothes-removal in Olympic history.
Being drunk doesn't mean you don't know what you're doing. It may give you a justified reason to DO the deed, but it doesn't absolve you of responsibility of said deed afterwards. Whatever you do (Non-consensual situations aside), you have to stand behind those choices, including choosing to drunk in the first place. Find yourself always in trouble when drinking? Here's a lightning bolt for you - don't drink, Einstein.
Ever been fucked by a goat while drunk? How about fucking a cactus? Humping your mom's leg like a daschund? No? Ah well, then it appears that your cognitive reasoning skills of preference, choice, and the healthy and appropriate, "Ok, there's no fuckin' way I'm doing THAT!" instinct are intact in your noggin while imbibing. Alcohol may present an opportunity (either positive or negative), but unless you choose to act upon it, it will pass by.
Wait, you wanna fuck a cactus, but can't seem to get up your nerve whilst sober? First, I don't blame your sober brain from bitchslapping your mind and screamin "Are you NUTS? You want to put our willy, WHERE??", but hey - to each their own. Want to use alcohol as a tool to facilitate that activity that's outside your comfort zone? Great! That's taking responsibility for your own desires!
There are no laws against idiots in this country, just the idiotic actions they may attempt.