Apr 15, 2004 03:31
SORRY BUT I AM STILL TRYING TO GET RID OF SOME OF THIS EXCESS ANGER SO I AM GOING TO SHOW YOU THIS CONVERSATION THAT I AM STILL HAVING WITH MY OTHER FRIEND ON WHAT SHE THINKS. FEEL FREE TO COMMENT HERE TOO. BTW ASHAGIRRL IS MY FRIEND AND I AM COUNT VAN BLAH.
AshaGirrl: and the thing is
AshaGirrl: that i saw her to day and she told me that she really is trying to stop
AshaGirrl: smoking
AshaGirrl: and i was wondering what the heck she was
AshaGirrl: telling me for cuz ive never really been friends so
Count Van Blah: SHE HASN'T BEEN APPARENTLY... SHE IS JUST SAYING THAT. SHE WANTS ME AS A FRIEND BUT SHE WONT EVEN TELL ME THE TRUTH!
AshaGirrl: which is really sad on her part
Count Van Blah: UH-HUH....... AND.......
Count Van Blah: WHAT SHOULD I DO?
AshaGirrl: well...
AshaGirrl: you
AshaGirrl: could tell her she has to be honest and pretend to be her friend untill you can finally decide if she has changed if not then you really will stop being friends
AshaGirrl: but
AshaGirrl: dont let her know that she has a trial period cuz then shell fake it
Count Van Blah: THE ONLY PROBLEM WITH THAT IS THAT THIS IS THE TRIAL PERIOD! I TOLD HER WE WOULDN'T BE FRIENDS UNTIL I SAW THAT SHE WAS REALLY TRYING BUT SHE JUST ACTED LIKE WE WERE FRIENDS AGAIN! SHE EVEN SAID IN HER NOTE THAT SHE NEW IT WOULD TAKE TIME FOR US TO BECOME FRIENDS AGAIN BUT YET SHE ACTS LIKE IT'S JUST SOME JOKE!
AshaGirrl: well then
AshaGirrl: um...
AshaGirrl: what do you feel is the best thing to do cuz
AshaGirrl: u cant just keep giving her chances