is it just me?
I dont know about you, but whenever i have a fight with a friend, especally a good friend, or even a stranger for that matter, once the initial argument is over i sit and reflect. One of the first things i ask myself is, "is it me?" and sometimes the answer is yes, and i have to readjust my attitude and apologize or just remember to not do it again in the future. I'm okay with that. Sometimes its not me, but i can still readjust me and make things a little better.
What i wonder is if no one else does this. I have this friend who seems to constantly be getting into these huge fights with their other friends. Its like, one thing after another and when they come to me to complain or wallow i dont know what to say. I try to be polite and thoughtful and not point fingers, but sometimes i just want to ask, "do you ever think YOU might be the problem?" Cause honestly sometimes i truely believe that are. And thats while only hearing there side of the story which in reality should skew my opinion the other way! anyways, i was just annoyed and wanted to vent. Maybe its just me...Sometimes i'm easily frustrated.
What i wonder is if no one else does this. I have this friend who seems to constantly be getting into these huge fights with their other friends. Its like, one thing after another and when they come to me to complain or wallow i dont know what to say. I try to be polite and thoughtful and not point fingers, but sometimes i just want to ask, "do you ever think YOU might be the problem?" Cause honestly sometimes i truely believe that are. And thats while only hearing there side of the story which in reality should skew my opinion the other way! anyways, i was just annoyed and wanted to vent. Maybe its just me...Sometimes i'm easily frustrated.