In response...
People who only post half of things said are fucktards.
People who attempt to call me a liar are worse.
People who insinuate that I'm an ass for marrying for love are ridiculous.
People who think everything said online is NOT a joke? Stupid.
People who send me a message then put me on ignore so I can't respond? Well, good-bye to you.
No, you can't see the sarcasm dripping off someone's lips in chat. It's hard to tell the difference.
Even if your entire life IS online chat. Which mine isn't .
Wonder why I don't post much anymore? I have a life. A real life. I work my ass off and don't feel like hopping online and wasting my entire evening when I have to get up at 5am the next day.
Do I occasionally post a negative thing about my husband? Yep. Is negativity the only thing I have with my husband? Nope. It just seems that a lot of people, not just me, post only the negative. It's easy to pop online when you're pissed.
For all of you that have never had to deal with someone that has ADHD, I suggest you read up on it. Learn about how hard it is for the significant other to deal with something they have no living knowledge of.
So, as I sit here stuffed with the wonderful my husband prepared for me yet again, I will continue this rant.
I don't display things in public to make another seem villainous or stupid. I'm beyond that. I'm better than that.
I may rant about certain things that upset me, but I don't drop names. I don't want to hurt or embarrass anyone like that. Read what you want, but most things I write can be directed to anyone. Notice in this blog I don't mention anyone specifically. If you feel this rant is directed towards you, maybe it is, maybe it isn't. But I won't call you out like that. I will deal with it PRIVATELY. I refuse to attempt to sway anyone's opinion of you. That's below me.
I don't judge people as severely as most others do. I don't let most comments made in online chat upset me. It's really not worth my time.
ABOUT MY HUSBAND
Pros:
- Extremely intelligent.
-Loving.
-Supportive.
-Listens to me.
-Doesn't make me feel stupid or inadequate.
-Makes dinner 99% of the time because he's usually home way before me.
-Helps my daughter with homework (she went from a C average to straight A's).
-Has the patience of a saint when I'm pissy.
-Loves my daughter as his own and never lets her think otherwise.
-Wonderful father (how many 14 year old sons do you know that will actually say they love their dad and will hug them in public?).
-Holds an Industrial Engineering degree and is only a few credit points away from having his Chemical and Mechanical Engineering degrees (graduated from U of Illinois Chicago with a 3.9 GPA).
-Understands that I work long hours and refuses to let me lift a finger when I have had a long/bad day at work.
-Lets me know every day, several times a day, how much I am loved and appreciated.
-Has had the same job for 5 years.
-Dependable.
-Honest.
-Well liked and respected by anyone that knows him in the real world.
-Is willing to accept my 2 older kids into our home with no qualms whatsoever (someone else told me that if they came back that they'd be gone).
-Has never raised a hand to me or my kids.
-My parents adore him, and they're hard to please.
-Makes me laugh at the drop of a hat, even if I'm in the bitchiest mood ever.
-Makes me happy to wake up next to him every day.
-Has an insane love of history, which I have always hated, and has actually gotten me interested in it. My daughter too. One of her favorite stations is The History Channel now.
-Is totally real, no airs or fakeness about him.
-Too many pros to continue...
Cons:
-Has ADHD which is sometimes a lot for me to deal with.
-Forgets where he puts things (again, a reflection on ADHD.)
-Tends to not realize that some people can't detect sarcasm, but really doesn't give a shit.
-Will latch on to a negative and bring it up during an argument.
-Sometimes leaves the toilet seat up.
-Sometimes stays up way too late.
-Doesn't use his degree to his advantage, but wouldn't you choose a different career path if every time you get a job in the field and fix their problem you get laid off?
-Snores.
-Talks constantly during movies.
-Can't really think of any more negatives. But some think his sarcasm in chat is a negative. Grow up and deal with it.
Anyhow, I could say so much more, but I really don't want to be online. I'd rather be sitting on the couch with my wonderful husband watching the Cubs game with no distractions.
Judge him if you want without knowing him personally. I'm happily married. Are you?
I know a couple of awesome people in Colorado will be soon! (Again, not dropping names...)
In conclusion, I will always choose my real life over anything on the Internet. I know who my real friends are. The ones that don't judge over a few comments on the Internet.
I love my life. I love my husband. I have awesome children and step-children.
I will most likely not be participating in any chat other than in clan on KoL. I don't need to deal with idiots any more than I do at work. I don't need to deal with childish behavior any more than I do with my daughter.
I wake up every morning knowing that life is good. Knowing that life is too short to dwell on negative.
I will speak my mind and hold nothing back from this point on.
I will not move in with a friend that is willing to help me, and mooch, then make that person look like a total fucking cunt because I don't want everyone to know I'm a lazy, slobbish, mooching piece of bat dung when they've finally had enough with my mooching.
I will also not publicly say anyone's name on any of my blogs. That's childish, immature and rather rude.
I will continue to be me. Happy.
Anyone that has ever seen me in any form of chat knows that I will NEVER disrespect anyone openly. It's either talked about privately or I will confront that person in a PRIVATE chat session. Sorry, that's how I roll.
If you see me post anything regarding me being upset at that moment, be reassured that it's always talked about like adults the following day. That's how you do things when you're married and really want to keep being married, happily.
Hope none of you are offended.
<3 Much love
Amy
People who attempt to call me a liar are worse.
People who insinuate that I'm an ass for marrying for love are ridiculous.
People who think everything said online is NOT a joke? Stupid.
People who send me a message then put me on ignore so I can't respond? Well, good-bye to you.
No, you can't see the sarcasm dripping off someone's lips in chat. It's hard to tell the difference.
Even if your entire life IS online chat. Which mine isn't .
Wonder why I don't post much anymore? I have a life. A real life. I work my ass off and don't feel like hopping online and wasting my entire evening when I have to get up at 5am the next day.
Do I occasionally post a negative thing about my husband? Yep. Is negativity the only thing I have with my husband? Nope. It just seems that a lot of people, not just me, post only the negative. It's easy to pop online when you're pissed.
For all of you that have never had to deal with someone that has ADHD, I suggest you read up on it. Learn about how hard it is for the significant other to deal with something they have no living knowledge of.
So, as I sit here stuffed with the wonderful my husband prepared for me yet again, I will continue this rant.
I don't display things in public to make another seem villainous or stupid. I'm beyond that. I'm better than that.
I may rant about certain things that upset me, but I don't drop names. I don't want to hurt or embarrass anyone like that. Read what you want, but most things I write can be directed to anyone. Notice in this blog I don't mention anyone specifically. If you feel this rant is directed towards you, maybe it is, maybe it isn't. But I won't call you out like that. I will deal with it PRIVATELY. I refuse to attempt to sway anyone's opinion of you. That's below me.
I don't judge people as severely as most others do. I don't let most comments made in online chat upset me. It's really not worth my time.
ABOUT MY HUSBAND
Pros:
- Extremely intelligent.
-Loving.
-Supportive.
-Listens to me.
-Doesn't make me feel stupid or inadequate.
-Makes dinner 99% of the time because he's usually home way before me.
-Helps my daughter with homework (she went from a C average to straight A's).
-Has the patience of a saint when I'm pissy.
-Loves my daughter as his own and never lets her think otherwise.
-Wonderful father (how many 14 year old sons do you know that will actually say they love their dad and will hug them in public?).
-Holds an Industrial Engineering degree and is only a few credit points away from having his Chemical and Mechanical Engineering degrees (graduated from U of Illinois Chicago with a 3.9 GPA).
-Understands that I work long hours and refuses to let me lift a finger when I have had a long/bad day at work.
-Lets me know every day, several times a day, how much I am loved and appreciated.
-Has had the same job for 5 years.
-Dependable.
-Honest.
-Well liked and respected by anyone that knows him in the real world.
-Is willing to accept my 2 older kids into our home with no qualms whatsoever (someone else told me that if they came back that they'd be gone).
-Has never raised a hand to me or my kids.
-My parents adore him, and they're hard to please.
-Makes me laugh at the drop of a hat, even if I'm in the bitchiest mood ever.
-Makes me happy to wake up next to him every day.
-Has an insane love of history, which I have always hated, and has actually gotten me interested in it. My daughter too. One of her favorite stations is The History Channel now.
-Is totally real, no airs or fakeness about him.
-Too many pros to continue...
Cons:
-Has ADHD which is sometimes a lot for me to deal with.
-Forgets where he puts things (again, a reflection on ADHD.)
-Tends to not realize that some people can't detect sarcasm, but really doesn't give a shit.
-Will latch on to a negative and bring it up during an argument.
-Sometimes leaves the toilet seat up.
-Sometimes stays up way too late.
-Doesn't use his degree to his advantage, but wouldn't you choose a different career path if every time you get a job in the field and fix their problem you get laid off?
-Snores.
-Talks constantly during movies.
-Can't really think of any more negatives. But some think his sarcasm in chat is a negative. Grow up and deal with it.
Anyhow, I could say so much more, but I really don't want to be online. I'd rather be sitting on the couch with my wonderful husband watching the Cubs game with no distractions.
Judge him if you want without knowing him personally. I'm happily married. Are you?
I know a couple of awesome people in Colorado will be soon! (Again, not dropping names...)
In conclusion, I will always choose my real life over anything on the Internet. I know who my real friends are. The ones that don't judge over a few comments on the Internet.
I love my life. I love my husband. I have awesome children and step-children.
I will most likely not be participating in any chat other than in clan on KoL. I don't need to deal with idiots any more than I do at work. I don't need to deal with childish behavior any more than I do with my daughter.
I wake up every morning knowing that life is good. Knowing that life is too short to dwell on negative.
I will speak my mind and hold nothing back from this point on.
I will not move in with a friend that is willing to help me, and mooch, then make that person look like a total fucking cunt because I don't want everyone to know I'm a lazy, slobbish, mooching piece of bat dung when they've finally had enough with my mooching.
I will also not publicly say anyone's name on any of my blogs. That's childish, immature and rather rude.
I will continue to be me. Happy.
Anyone that has ever seen me in any form of chat knows that I will NEVER disrespect anyone openly. It's either talked about privately or I will confront that person in a PRIVATE chat session. Sorry, that's how I roll.
If you see me post anything regarding me being upset at that moment, be reassured that it's always talked about like adults the following day. That's how you do things when you're married and really want to keep being married, happily.
Hope none of you are offended.
<3 Much love
Amy