OK. This was a really honest entry so I'm going to give you an honest answer...
I felt exactly like that when I dated Erik. I knew that I would date him, but never marry him. I definitely had that voice in my head.
But both times I dated Jade I had the opposite voice in my head. I really felt like he was it for me. But you know what, we don't always get what we want, and all we can do is be happy about it. That sounds strange, but Jade just didn't love me back the way I loved him. He found another girl and felt like she was it for him and she loved him back. That's a beautiful thing. I guess what I'm getting at is, there's someone for everyone. Just because my match isn't who I thought he was doesn't mean the right guy isn't out there. And I'm going love him so much more.
The same thing will happen for you. I promise. In the mean time, you should just try to love yourself. Cliche, I know. But loving yourself helps you deal with waiting for the right guy to come along. It helps keep you from dating all the wrong guys. Because let's face it, if you're dating the wrong guy and the right guy comes along... He might just pass you over because you're busy wasting your time with someone you know is never going to be it for you.
I felt exactly like that when I dated Erik. I knew that I would date him, but never marry him. I definitely had that voice in my head.
But both times I dated Jade I had the opposite voice in my head. I really felt like he was it for me. But you know what, we don't always get what we want, and all we can do is be happy about it. That sounds strange, but Jade just didn't love me back the way I loved him. He found another girl and felt like she was it for him and she loved him back. That's a beautiful thing. I guess what I'm getting at is, there's someone for everyone. Just because my match isn't who I thought he was doesn't mean the right guy isn't out there. And I'm going love him so much more.
The same thing will happen for you. I promise. In the mean time, you should just try to love yourself. Cliche, I know. But loving yourself helps you deal with waiting for the right guy to come along. It helps keep you from dating all the wrong guys. Because let's face it, if you're dating the wrong guy and the right guy comes along... He might just pass you over because you're busy wasting your time with someone you know is never going to be it for you.
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