Answer me fuckers!

[coughcoughing]

I'm 21 and I've only kissed one boy (yeah, that's right, I'm not afraid to admit it, he's my boyfriend of 2.5 years).

So how many boys or girls have you kissed?  Is it too much to even count?

P.S. I'm sure once I hear your answers I'll have wished I had gotten around more while I was still single.  Haha. 

Comments

[what_a_kick]

i haven't kissed any : (
but i'm only 16, so i guess that's okay? i just feel like such a prude compared to all my friends who are sleeping around already.

[1pissedoffchick]

When I was 16, I never had a boyfriend. Take it easy. Don't rush into "relationships." Those who sleep around with every guy in town are probably the most insecure anyway. There's more to life than "sleeping around." Kudos to having self respect. :-)

[what_a_kick]

yeah, i know how bad it can be for your self-esteem - hence the reason i'm not like them. high school's a tough place, though, as i'm sure you know; sometimes i just feel so weird, being pretty much the only virgin i know.

thanks for the compliment, i'm proud of myself for not giving myself up like that.

[1pissedoffchick]

High school sucks. It is a test of strength. Most people buy into peer pressure, unfortunately. It is in human nature to be insecure. Everyone has their own insecurities--some have it worse off than others. But in any case, everyone has struggles. It is those who recognize their struggles and do something about it succeed in the long term.

High school is one challenge. College is another. And then getting out into the real world, is another. Everything is a challenge in its own way. Be confident of who you are, realize the positives and negatives in your life, be patient and persevere...and you're closer to personal success and any variables that randomly show up in your life.

[coughcoughing]

I didn't kiss my boyfriend until I was 18! I was the only one of my friends who didn't have a boyfriend at some point or another, but whatever, it didn't really hurt me. Anyway, I wouldn't be worried about it because most boys in high school are lame as fuck. Your pretty too, so I doubt you have trouble attracting guys either way.

[what_a_kick]

aw, thanks! that's very sweet of you to say, especially since the only picture you've seen of me is my super-attractive icon.

yeah, i'm not too worried about it. there are really only a few guys at my school that are even close to being acceptable, and they all have girlfriends, so it's not even worth the struggle. besides, since i won't have sex with a guy after two weeks (crazy, no?) i can ensure that if a guy likes me, it's really for me.

[loquaciousmind2]

i agree with you completely. i'm 15, and haven't kissed anyone, for all the same reasons as you! =)

[what_a_kick]

oh fantastic! we are definitely of a dying breed.

friends?

[loquaciousmind2]

duhh, qt! =)

[dirtyandtrue]

this is my experience too! not having a boyfriend till i was 18 largely because my high school was the most boring place ever full of the most unappealing boys ever who were all -- i find out now -- apparently afraid of me? anyway, i have kissed two people. that boyfriend and the one after, whom i've been with now for going on three years. i'm 22. this whole comment section made me feel much better and more normal even though high school was quite a while ago now, heh.

may i friend thee?

[coughcoughing]

sure! add me and I'll add you back!