c'est la vie

Jan 03, 2012 12:44

(Name withheld) deleted me. I'm not surprised at all. She hasn't responded to anything I've written in ages. Like, possibly, a year? The last thing I remember her even responding about is back when I was looking for the backup B (because the first B came from her) although I'm sure there was something somewhere I don't remember because it was less significant. And then she'd written a "year in review" because she'd seen someone else do it but had apparently missed that I've done it since 2002. And I knew even as I pointed out that I'd been doing it for that long she'd probably delete me, I figured "c'est la vie". Because it's ok when people move apart.

So this brings up the opportunity to once again say,

IF YOU DON'T WANT TO BE MY FRIEND/DON'T READ ME, THEN PLEASE FEEL FREE TO DELETE ME!!!!! I won't be hurt or pissed even if I miss you. I can honestly say there are people I have deleted because I just don't feel connected to them. It's ok. It happens. Our lives go different directions and we feel like we don't know or understand people anymore and IT'S OK! (Course if you don't read me, you won't be seeing this... ) There have even been people in my life I deleted because their lives moved in a direction that hurt/bothered me to see and I couldn't watch it happen. I'm not talking about responding either. I don't always respond to everybody's journals. I don't expect people to respond to mine. It's nice to think/know there are people out there who care but I don't want people to feel like they have to tiptoe around me either. Just like there are people out there that I don't communicate with in any form and wonder about all the time and just like I will with the latest that's grown apart.

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